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Drewau2005

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Please help. I am newly married to my wife Jayne and I said something stupid on the weeknd and now she will not have anything to do with me. I am utterly heartbroken. We have recently come back from our honeymoon and Jayne has not yet moved into my house. I had a terrible week at work last wek and was very stressed. Friends and Jayne were coming over for a dinner party on Saturday night. I hadn't heard heard from my wife for three days prior and was feeling unhappy. She texted me on Friday saying "what time will I come over on Saturday?" I replied, stupidly, "come over but it will be the last time" When she came over to the dinner party, she had no intention of staying and went to leave when the other guests left. I said we need to talk and said "can I talk tomorrow?" "She said tomorrow is a yucky day". I saw red and said that I don't want to be your partner anymore. "She said you're dumping me?" and strormed out.

 

I don't know what came over me. I didn't mean it. We've just come back from a honeymoon and had a great time. Our communication has been strained at times as we both dissociate a bit. Our love has never been in question. It was stupid of me to say what I did, I can only figure I said it as to get a reaction, to get Jayne to move in quickly. Now she won't talk to me at all. I have sent her flowers and if I ring she slams the phone down immediately. She has somewhat of a history of not coming around if someone offends her, she hasn't spoken to most of her family in years. I am really scared that she will not come back, I love her and am utterly heartbroken. I am really sorry for what I said.

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You are both immature. You didnt have to say that...it was stupidity. She on the other hand has a terrible immature anger problem. To save your marriage you need to get both yourselves to marriage counselling..Apart from that step up as a supportive married couple and not enemies

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I am confused. You are married and she doesn't live with you? I don't understand. I do agree that counseling would probably be your best bet.

 

If she will not talk to you on the phone, can you go to her house? You are her husband, she needs to quit sulking and talk to you.

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