Got rejectged then asked out all in one night.

[brahman]

Well I got a hot date with a girl, got hugs and kisses out of the night, which plenty good for me on a first date, then a few days went by and she said she does not want to date again. Well within that night I actually got told by another that she wanted to go out with me.

 

The real question here is that.......This girl is definitely not as good looking as the other, but then again I try not to be superficial, but then again I feel like I don't have the same want "mentally" to be with this other girl. Should I go on at least one date anyways?

 

In the words of Jaaaaaaa, "Poop."

 

Edit: this is all through those dating sites.

[pinkrobot]

Well, is she attractive enough to you that you're interested in taking her on at least one date? Because if she's even a little bit attractive, it's amazing what personality can do as far as attractiveness when you really get to know someone.

 

Basically, what I'm trying to say is, take her on a date and see how you feel after that. If you just aren't feeling it, you don't have to go out with her again. But it's one night, a few hours, and it definitely couldn't hurt to at least try.

[hosswhispra]

From what I've been told, men are like microwaves-they get hot fast. Women are like ovens-they warm up over time. With that in mind, I would assume that a man has to be attracted physically the moment he lays eyes on said woman. No attraction = Friend. I gather you don't want a friend. Leave mediocre gal alone for some guy to find her hot. You also will be free to find a hottie for yourself.

[jul-els]

If you're really not interested then don't waste your or her time. If you are, then ask her out. If you think maybe but don't know for sure, then ask her out and see how it goes.

[ghost69]

date who you want. i'll tell you now don't settle. if you aren't attracted, save yourself the heartache later and don't go.