She finally did what I asked...

[TheFlash]

So she dumped me for another guy, for the attention...

 

She wouldnt stop calling me and stuff like that over about a month, the most I got was 8 days NC all of which she contacted me,

 

Finally I awnsered and I told her I was sorry and I forgive her for cheating on me with another guy, and in the nicest way possible told her the time away has made me realize maybe I didn't love her as much as I thought I did..

 

I kinda said that in a way to get her to just go be happy with the other guy cause she clearly didnt want me.. She was really hurt, but i think it was what it was going to take to get her to leave me alone and heal..

 

Now its been 6 days NC and she hasnt contacted me even once, which is ultimately what I wanted, but I would at least like to be given the oppurtunity to not respond, i guess its just my ego... this is the longest she has been without trying to contact me..

 

just venting...

[SapphireNoir10]

LEave her alone and make sure she leaves you alone. This relationship is over and the best thing for her and you is to go No Contact.

 

You dont need her and you dont need to worry about her as much as it hurts she made her choice.