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My girlfriend of the past five years has been on web sites to look for men. she has had online chats with a few and one she even started talking too on her cell.She kept it from me for months until I seen a text message from him and ? her on it she told me it was just for friendship and she liked to talk to him. she said she would stop but just changed her messenger and then I found out she was talking to a guy that she used to have a long distance relationship with. What should I do ?

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Hey there, sorry this has happened to you.

 

She's being devious, hiding things from you, having what I would consider to be emotional affairs.....do you really want to be with a woman who has such a lack of respect for you? I think you know what you should do, easier said than done I know.

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I personally would let her know that is unacceptable behavior and you are not willing to tolerate it. If she says no, kick her to the curb.

 

I say draw first blood.

 

Sounds like she's shopping for a replacement. When she finds it you'll be moved to the second-hand shelf.

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There is no chance for a healthy relationship with someone who is dishonest, deceitful and prone to scouting out others while in a relationship. Do you really want to be treated this disrespectfully? Will talking to her do any good...no...because a person with integrity, values and a conscience wouldn't do what she is doing. I would suggest walking out of the relationship and finding someone who will be true to you and only you.

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My girlfriend of the past five years has been on web sites to look for men. she has had online chats with a few and one she even started talking too on her cell.She kept it from me for months until I seen a text message from him and ? her on it she told me it was just for friendship and she liked to talk to him. she said she would stop but just changed her messenger and then I found out she was talking to a guy that she used to have a long distance relationship with. What should I do ?

 

Guess it's gotten stale and she's looking for a little energy and excitement. Have things gotten a bit... milquetoast?

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