AnotherDude Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 My girlfriend and I broke up on March 29th due to an argument we had. We were long distance, but for a good reason. Obviously in the amount of time I've been dating her, she has found that there are other guys out there that are closer to her. Lo and behold, she had a new boyfriend not even 48 hours later. All shes been doing since then is posting about how much she adores her boyfriend etcetc. I know myspace doesnt matter, but it still stings. I think shes doing it to either get on my nerves or to show me that its completely over(being the way she is..i doubt that). I have a very deep rooted intuition, one that has been correct before, that things are not over. I know he isnt going to treat her right and she has a good chance of coming back to me for emotional support. I am willing to give that support because she has a lot of problems and none of this is truly her fault. So basically my question is: Should I be bitter and go NC for a long time if not forever, or should I remain neutral and go NC for just 3 or 4 weeks and then try to maintain a friend ship? Ever since I felt that we have been on bad terms, I have been having horribly emotional dreams and have been thinking about it a lot. I think something inside of me just really wants to have her as a friend. Link to comment
nem69 Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 Are you sre you wish to be with someone who is involved with all these guys. She doesn't seem very commited to you. I would just go full NC and leve her be. Link to comment
AnotherDude Posted April 6, 2009 Author Share Posted April 6, 2009 Are you sre you wish to be with someone who is involved with all these guys. She doesn't seem very commited to you. I would just go full NC and leve her be. I don't really want to be with her anymore. I have lost a lot of what connected me to her. I would just like to be friends with her, and perhaps when she grows up it could be more. She hasnt been with "all these guys", she just happened to date another guy right after we broke up. He looks like a pretty big scum bag to me and I think it was just filler for her. Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 I don't really want to be with her anymore. I have lost a lot of what connected me to her. I would just like to be friends with her, and perhaps when she grows up it could be more. She hasnt been with "all these guys", she just happened to date another guy right after we broke up. He looks like a pretty big scum bag to me and I think it was just filler for her. Well then you walk away and don't look back. In the future maybe you can be friends. Link to comment
nem69 Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 Well then you walk away and don't look back. In the future maybe you can be friends. Yep, NC is for you.....move on and forget her Link to comment
pumpkinmoon Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 Just NC, that's all you need. Link to comment
AnotherDude Posted April 7, 2009 Author Share Posted April 7, 2009 Thank you, I appreciate the input. I will remain NC. That definitely isn't a problem with me I don't really want to talk to her for a long time. Link to comment
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