stackawacka Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 hey guys ive been no contact now for nearly a year. she ended it , even though she has no idea, i know she was lying and cheating on me. i had an email on sunday off her , all it said was "hello" ! what the hell is she playing at ?? cheers ! Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 Sounds like her life with whoever isn't so peachy and she is testing the waters. The question is, do you want to go back into that pool again? lost Link to comment
stackawacka Posted April 6, 2009 Author Share Posted April 6, 2009 definitely not, got hurt too bad last time! just find it strange that shes got in touch ! Link to comment
CandyKins Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 How do you feel? Do you feel that she has no right to contact you out of nowhere? Do you feel pissed? what the hell is she playing at ?? Now that's a brilliant question. Personally I feel, after a year.. it kinda creeps me out and just puts your mind-set to a whole new level. Maybe just maybe she's after something. I mean think about it, no contact after a year and she contacts you like... out of the blue? Er.. something seems to be in the air. Or maybe she's just being genuine and simply casually wondering how you are, I mean she does know who you are. It's not like you both are strangers, hence "ex". I mean she would always know you and remember you. I suggest you reply to whatever you feel, but to keep a sharp eye on to the future ahead. Some people can be do devious. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 It might be a temporary ego boost, but as the other poster implied..."Do you really want to get back into that situation?" Take care... Link to comment
stackawacka Posted April 6, 2009 Author Share Posted April 6, 2009 she has got in touch before, and i fell for it ! i rented a truck from work and helped her parents move house. shortly after she dropped me again. so i stiil feel angry about the way she used me last time. im not going to reply, just thought she would have got the message after i ignored her text about 6 months ago . Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 she has got in touch before, and i fell for it ! i rented a truck from work and helped her parents move house. shortly after she dropped me again. so i stiil feel angry about the way she used me last time. im not going to reply, just thought she would have got the message after i ignored her text about 6 months ago . OH... so you have been in touch with her more than once in the past year and she's made more that one effort as well. Link to comment
stackawacka Posted April 6, 2009 Author Share Posted April 6, 2009 OH... so you have been in touch with her more than once in the past year and she's made more that one effort as well. no last time i returned her text was about 18 months ago when i moved her parents. we split up about 2 years ago. last time i actually seen her last was last may ! she txt me about 6 months ago saying, "i dont know why you havent been in touch but i hope ur ok anyway". i stayed nc for that. then she emailed me on sunday saying hello. why does she keep trying to get in touch? Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 Ah... I see now. Who knows why... I mean she may value a freindship with you or she needs a shoulder to cry on. Personally I think you've got your head on right. You understand she screwed you over and you're pissed. Good for you. As for what you should do next... I think you answered your own question. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 Sounds like you are a double back up plan. Just in case she never finds anyone better than you. Ignore it and keep living your life. lost Link to comment
stackawacka Posted April 6, 2009 Author Share Posted April 6, 2009 thankyou for your replies ! Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 I think you know that you should ignore her...so do that. Link to comment
philove Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 definitely ignore her mate. The biggest mistake I ever made was when I got back in contact with my ex. It can be quite flattering and it will make you curious but you need to guard your heart. Link to comment
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