Divine_Malice Posted April 5, 2009 Share Posted April 5, 2009 So me and my boyfriend talked threw are crazy month of lows and are so much better. Now I want to do something fun for him. I don't know exactly what to do. I don't want the same old thing. Now our sex life is not dull at all, so it has to be exciting. Any ideas on how i can bring a little more steam to the bedroom? much thanks! Link to comment
Lamour detruit Posted April 5, 2009 Share Posted April 5, 2009 find yourself a nice set of lingerie, and tease him with it. tie him up in the bed,and perform a striptease...slowly. Take off his clothes, and tease whichever part of his body you wish to tease until he's begging you. Then slowly straddle him, and no doubt you can take it from there. As for others things, candles being lit around a dark bedroom is always nice. Perhaps try a little experimenting and new positions ?...I am not sure how rough you guys like it,but a little hair tugging, dominating, biting always does the trick. If your music taste is similar, I find it to be a sensual thing as well. generally when making love,a soft soothing song is always beautiful. When having rough sex, a little more sensual and sexually hard song so you can pound your bodies to the rhythm works for me. Link to comment
TENNFOLD1974 Posted April 5, 2009 Share Posted April 5, 2009 This might be gross to some of you...but get worked up enough to be able to ejaculate hard in his mouth..I know it makes me go ape * * * * ....just my 2 cents. Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted April 5, 2009 Share Posted April 5, 2009 Watch porn together, dress up for him, dance for him, handcuff him to the bed and take charge for the night, there's a lot of general sexy stuff you can do How secure do you feel with him? I wouldn't suggest it if you've not been together long but you could always make him a home movie or a private photo album, something he can look at when you're not around Is there anything he's ever mentioned he likes that you haven't tried yet, like anal or stripteasing or something? Link to comment
Divine_Malice Posted April 5, 2009 Author Share Posted April 5, 2009 find yourself a nice set of lingerie, and tease him with it. tie him up in the bed,and perform a striptease...slowly. Take off his clothes, and tease whichever part of his body you wish to tease until he's begging you. Then slowly straddle him, and no doubt you can take it from there. As for others things, candles being lit around a dark bedroom is always nice. Perhaps try a little experimenting and new positions ?...I am not sure how rough you guys like it,but a little hair tugging, dominating, biting always does the trick. If your music taste is similar, I find it to be a sensual thing as well. generally when making love,a soft soothing song is always beautiful. When having rough sex, a little more sensual and sexually hard song so you can pound your bodies to the rhythm works for me. Yeah, that was exactly what I was looking for and i think we'll go a little rough tonight. Thanks I couldn't quite figure it out, I don't think I dominate him enough it might be a good change.! thanks This might be gross to some of you...but get worked up enough to be able to ejaculate hard in his mouth..I know it makes me go ape * * * * ....just my 2 cents. Haha, hmm I don't know if he'd like that? I will have to ask, he does love 69, thanks that might be something new. Watch porn together, dress up for him, dance for him, handcuff him to the bed and take charge for the night, there's a lot of general sexy stuff you can do How secure do you feel with him? I wouldn't suggest it if you've not been together long but you could always make him a home movie or a private photo album, something he can look at when you're not around Is there anything he's ever mentioned he likes that you haven't tried yet, like anal or stripteasing or something? Well we cant do porn (12 step kind of thing, you know what I mean) But I did do the video thing once, I think we were thinking about makeing a new one together, (we are very comfortable together, live together, friends for a long time, and it'll be a year in may. Striptease, I think he really wants something like that, we have tried the other. I just don't know how to go about it. should I wear a button up shirt put music on lol? thanks Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted April 5, 2009 Share Posted April 5, 2009 I did a google search and got: link removed Or you could buy a book, my ex once bought me a 'how to give a lapdance' book for valentines day (subtle hint about what he wanted for HIS present haha), there's loads of helpful info out there Just be sure you're comfortable and relaxed, and wear things that are easy to take off, nothing too tight or too complex. Probably not too much jewellery as well, just asking to get caught on things. Link to comment
Lamour detruit Posted April 5, 2009 Share Posted April 5, 2009 Yeah, that was exactly what I was looking for and i think we'll go a little rough tonight. Thanks I couldn't quite figure it out, I don't think I dominate him enough it might be a good change.! thanks Striptease, I think he really wants something like that, we have tried the other. I just don't know how to go about it. should I wear a button up shirt put music on lol? thanks Perhaps a low cut shirt with enough cleavage but just enough to make his eyes wander further down, and a short skirt with some nice stockings below it,along with some lingerie ?...I know stockings are one of my weaknesses. Personally, I am more one that dominates instead of the other way around,but there are times where it is overwhelming to see the lady you want taking what she desires,and showing it in the most need filled way. Sounds like your guy is someone who enjoys this, so a strip tease and some dominating works. If you think you have some music that fits with it,by all means go for it...I guarantee you when he is tied up while you are stripping and teasing him, his jaw will drop. Link to comment
Divine_Malice Posted April 5, 2009 Author Share Posted April 5, 2009 Wow, thanks guys I have like a billion great ideas for him. I can't wait till he gets back home so I can use it on him! You guys were a lot of help, I appreciate it, so excited now! Link to comment
paperneck Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 they have double ended dildos for straight couples now. I DUNNO?! maybe it'll bring you closer together. Link to comment
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