semaj612 Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 I have been friends with this girl for a long time now. Our relationship has stepped up to where we now both know we have feelings for each other. the problem is I am moving in about a month and she knows that. This is the reason why I have not made a move on her because Im not looking to make it complicated for when I move. We are suppose to go to her roomates competition tomorrow, but she just asked me if she could bring her guy friend with her so I can "meet him." If it wasnt for me she would be dating this guy most likely. So I asked her why she wants me to meet him, and she wont give me an answer. What does this mean? Should I just tell her I understand why your doing this, because I guess I do, cause we have been friends for a while and I am leaving so I guess she wants me to meet the guy? Link to comment
JustBeachy Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 image removed I think she's going to drop a bomb on you. Personally, I would cancel. I wouldn't want to see a girl that I care for with her potential/future boyfriend because that's what it sounds like to me. Link to comment
semaj612 Posted April 4, 2009 Author Share Posted April 4, 2009 The thing is I cant really cancel cause I need to go for her roomate. Which sucks because I was hoping this didnt happen, but I knew their was a chance. Since I asked her why does she want me to meet him, and she didnt respond, can I tell her I understand why you want me to meet him? Link to comment
JustBeachy Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 I would just be blunt about it. Ask her if it's a guy she's interested in dating. She might be wanting to get your stamp of approval. Link to comment
semaj612 Posted April 4, 2009 Author Share Posted April 4, 2009 Why my approval? It just gets me mad, cause it should be me but I understand why. But you dont have to have me meet the guy. I guess I understand. Link to comment
JustBeachy Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 Why my approval? It just gets me mad, cause it should be me but I understand why. But you dont have to have me meet the guy. I guess I understand. Probably because she thinks highly of you and cares about what you think. I can see how it would get you mad. I would be too, but just grin and bear it tomorrow. It's prob gonna suck. Link to comment
semaj612 Posted April 4, 2009 Author Share Posted April 4, 2009 Haha yea probably. Thanks man Link to comment
Yanet Posted April 5, 2009 Share Posted April 5, 2009 How about you don't go and stop hanging out with her? It seems to be causing you distress, especially with her new boyfriend. If you're moving in 1 month and never going to see any of them again, it doesn't matter. Link to comment
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