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When your out and about and strike up a conversation w/someone of interest, when parting do you prefer to give your # and put the ball in their court or get there's and be in control??

Maybe it does even matter since I guess either way you would be showing that you are interested. I guess im just curious as to others thoughts on it...

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I rather have their number because if I give them mine, I get this feeling that they will never call or atleast text lol... Now that I think about it, I rather get their number and give them mine that way if she wants to call, she can whenever she feels like it (also, cuz I know some ppl, me included, don't pick up numbers that they don't know, so if she has my number, its more likely she'll pick up).

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I always do both. When I get their number I text them something really quick so they can save my number. Or I have them put my number in their phone, save it, then call me really quick so I have theirs as well. A lot of people, myself included, don't pick up calls from unknown numbers.

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When your out and about and strike up a conversation w/someone of interest, when parting do you prefer to give your # and put the ball in their court or get there's and be in control??

Maybe it does even matter since I guess either way you would be showing that you are interested. I guess im just curious as to others thoughts on it...

 

I honestly prefer to give my phone number and ask them to call.

 

Because it puts the woman at ease and puts the ball in her court. Thus, I am giving her time to think if she would at all feel comfortable contacting me. Because if your game is tight enough, she will take a chance and call you. But you have to make her feel comfortable enough to want to take a risk.

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If you are a guy, don't give the girl your number.

 

Some people might not care, but I personally find it such a turn-off. To me it says lack of initiative and I would not call a guy if he gave me his #/card instead of taking mine.

 

Granted, not all girls feel as I do - but why take the risk?

 

I honestly prefer to give my phone number and ask them to call.

 

Because it puts the woman at ease and puts the ball in her court. Thus, I am giving her time to think if she would at all feel comfortable contacting me. Because if your game is tight enough, she will take a chance and call you. But you have to make her feel comfortable enough to want to take a risk.

 

On the contrary - the tighter the guy's game, the more confused I get about such phone habits. And few women, I believe, want the ball in their court.

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