lisalisa Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 My BF really loves the 69 position, I could either take it or leave it. Others thoughts? Link to comment
CAgirl Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I like it, but I think it works better if you are smaller than your guy. Link to comment
joan Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Agree, I think it works better that way as well and I do not mind it. Have had a few guys who wanted the "top" for that position and thats really not my thing! Link to comment
heatspreader Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I like the 69 position, it makes for good foreplay. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 it's good but i usually wanna bang. Link to comment
top bloke Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 69 is boring. I suppose its good for going down on each other but when the time comes nothing beat good proper sex. Link to comment
yellowcal Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 It's ok but not top on my list of things to do. Really hard to enjoy yourself because you are focusing on pleasuring your partner. Link to comment
kaligrl22 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I find it hard to concentrate on the pleasure I'm receiving while still trying to please him. It's fun, but only for a few minutes. Link to comment
Vince99 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I think it would be fun but only with the girl on top. Link to comment
doc wannabe Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I agree with the previous posters. I could certainly take it. But I'm really oral anyway. I think the issue is in that you are trying to please your partner and not really being able to relax and enjoy what is given to you. It's a balancing act that takes some practice Additionally, I think there are angle issues. I know with the lovers that I have had; they didn't seem to enjoy the cunnlingus as much in a 69 position as they did with just me giving it to them, so maybe the angles are different and it feels differently and not as good for you? Link to comment
coldplay. Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I find it hard to concentrate on the pleasure I'm receiving while still trying to please him. It's fun, but only for a few minutes. Ya in my opinion it makes it better, lets say the more she liked it in the past, the better it got, until it turned into something that really wasnt thought about and was just acted upon, if you get me, like less formal more spontaneous. wow now that i think about it i kind of miss going down on girls, it always ends so well. Link to comment
diabolik Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 69 is sexual multitasking, and other than the naughtiness factor, isn't really all that pleasurable because both partners are focusing on giving pleasure and no one is focused on feeling pleasure. Link to comment
coldplay. Posted April 5, 2009 Share Posted April 5, 2009 69 is sexual multitasking, and other than the naughtiness factor, isn't really all that pleasurable because both partners are focusing on giving pleasure and no one is focused on feeling pleasure. Theres a difference and similarity between pleasurable and hot, both are equally important to me atleast in sex. Depending on the sex, it sometimes leans on the pleasurable side rather than the hot. Good sex has both. 69 has more hot, less pleasurable, so i see it as amazing foreplay. Its not something i could just 'do' for like an hour, its always a precursor to sex, very good sex. Link to comment
paperneck Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 the focusing on receiving and giving is what makes it fun for me. How well you are receiving can intensify how well you give, and if you can read each other well while you're doing it it can be a really nice precursor to sex. Link to comment
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