Darkness7 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I was just wondering if there are any specific signs that a relationship is truly over? Or any signs that there's still a possibilty of getting back together again? And does anyone have any success stories? I have been broken up with my fiancee for 3 weeks now and all I want is her back. Link to comment
KT99 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 What are the signs you're talking about? The fact you've been broken up three weeks is a pretty HUGE sign. Do you still talk? Link to comment
Darkness7 Posted April 3, 2009 Author Share Posted April 3, 2009 What are the signs you're talking about? The fact you've been broken up three weeks is a pretty HUGE sign. Do you still talk? She says she needed some time on her own to sort out her head and then we can talk about being together again. When I initiated no contact, she started to contact me again and wanted to know what was going on and why I wasn't contacting her anymore. Link to comment
ratfreak Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Did she tell you what these things are that she needs to sort out? Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Every situation is different. If your asking for advice you need to provide a lot more information about your situation. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 It sounds like you don't really have any idea what's going on with her. What was your relationship like? How long were you together before you got engaged and then broke up? How old are you both? Maybe if you give a little more background, we can give you more on point advice for your situation. Link to comment
Darkness7 Posted April 3, 2009 Author Share Posted April 3, 2009 Did she tell you what these things are that she needs to sort out? She said she had some personal problems (depression) that she needed to sort out, go to her gp and stuff, see a counsellor and stuff to do with her family. Link to comment
Darkness7 Posted April 3, 2009 Author Share Posted April 3, 2009 It sounds like you don't really have any idea what's going on with her. What was your relationship like? How long were you together before you got engaged and then broke up? How old are you both? Maybe if you give a little more background, we can give you more on point advice for your situation. Our relationship was a very healthy one, we were always supporting each other and the communication was good as well. We were together for 5 years in total and engaged for 2. We are both 25. Her mother does not like me and has been trying to break us apart ever since we got together. Link to comment
nem69 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 I had the opposite, her mother adored me and has always pushed her for us to be together which I am sure is another thing that didn't help. I don't know when you can say its going to work again. I guess if she starts freely talking about being together again. Link to comment
The_411 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Oh boy I feel bad for you darkness when a family intervenes and doesn't want you in the family that is usually a very big red flag. Why you ask? It means that the parent either has control issues or the parent is a bigot (for interracial relationships), or even worse a nut job. Very rarely does it have to do with the partner being a bad partner. If your ex-fiancee is battling depression and her mom seems to be acting cuckoo while being broken apart feels horrible it may be the best for the long run. It's very difficult to be married to someone when their family or family memebers dislike/hate you. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 Well I'm sorry that you are left in the dark about this after such a healthy relationship. Go with what she wants for now and work on getting yourself back and healing. Best. Link to comment
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