enchanted771 Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 I have been seeing this guy who is a little shy, but more he is pretty reserved and conservative. I knew there was something different about him, because when we started talking he wasn’t bringing up the sex talk like the rest of these guys online. So I knew there was something different about him. In fact, I had to practically drag it out of him. I am very outgoing, somewhat bold, outspoken at times, and pretty sexually open. I did take him by surprise at first, but I apparently he likes it now. I am really not sure WHAT it is exactly but with us being almost opposite, there is some huge chemistry between us. I feel totally comfortable with him, and feel like I could talk to him for hours (on many topics) he is just so easy to talk to. I am guessing what a shy guy needs is a more bold woman to break him out of his shell. Sometimes he is reserved but other times, he is pretty open. Just going to take time to get him to open up to me, but I think its going somewhere. Just looking to see if anyone else experienced this. As far as in bed, I think he likes that I am sexually inhibited…well because he said so. And I am a tad older. Not a lot, but a tad. (Less than 10 years older) Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 Eons ago I picked up a shy guy at a party and we dated for 2 years. It was mostly a good relationship while it lasted. Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted April 2, 2009 Author Share Posted April 2, 2009 Eons ago I picked up a shy guy at a party and we dated for 2 years. It was mostly a good relationship while it lasted. I think it is too. Its just he is not very direct, and some of his hints are hard to detect. I was the one who had to initiate us hanging out, otherwise the very soon would have gone on forever lol Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted April 2, 2009 Author Share Posted April 2, 2009 Another thing I should add, is that he doesnt seem to like to talk on the phone much. Maybe the other shy guys on this board can second that. I know when we do talk, he is a little quiet and I have to keep the convo going. Otherwise, its text. I know, that even I express my feelings easier in writing. Link to comment
testcase Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 Hey that's good, opposites attract. There are different levels of shy though. People can be very reserved and it doesn't mean they are shy. Link to comment
coldplay. Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 As a shy guy ill say ya, bold women that are attracted to me are hot. Some of the most 'fun' relationships ive been in were with women that knew what they wanted, proverbially broke my shell and reaped the benefits, im a very open person if im comfortable. Its too bad i couldnt just be open with everyone i meet things would be oh so good. Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted April 2, 2009 Author Share Posted April 2, 2009 Hey that's good, opposites attract. There are different levels of shy though. People can be very reserved and it doesn't mean they are shy. I cant put my finger on it lol. Its not like he is TOTALLY shy but there is some sort of innocence to him! not like some guy who said he would give me a good work out when I said I went to the gym. I mean, sure he would say that NOW but not on a first or second convo. Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted April 2, 2009 Author Share Posted April 2, 2009 As a shy guy ill say ya, bold women that are attracted to me are hot. Some of the most 'fun' relationships ive been in were with women that knew what they wanted, proverbially broke my shell and reaped the benefits, im a very open person if im comfortable. Its too bad i couldnt just be open with everyone i meet things would be oh so good. well, you probably just arent comfortable with them. Maybe you didnt connect with everyone, and you are selective??? even I am. Link to comment
coldplay. Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 well, you probably just arent comfortable with them. Maybe you didnt connect with everyone, and you are selective??? even I am. Thats a good question, when i think about it, ive had a good time with everyone ive connected with, and not so good of a time with those i didnt. I suppose it depends on the girl, some people may take me as someone who im really not, while other bold girls go for me and find out first hand. Like ive dated shy girls and bold girls, it seems like relationships with shy girls seem to be more of a reading game until things are plainly obvious. Sometimes that in turn makes me read into things to much, then questioning myself, and it just spirals down into me or her no longer being interested. With bold girls there is no guessing or reading, just hanging on for the ride. But in both cases shy or bold, if it takes off, i turn into a much different person and no one so far has complained. Link to comment
Ranch Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 I totall;y understand. It took along time to just even get over my feelings for him. Shy-guy but, I loved it. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 Another thing I should add, is that he doesnt seem to like to talk on the phone much. Maybe the other shy guys on this board can second that. I know when we do talk, he is a little quiet and I have to keep the convo going. Otherwise, its text. I know, that even I express my feelings easier in writing. My relationship was so long ago that there was no text! lol We only talked on the phone to make plans, but we spent every day together so there wasn't much need for indirect communication. Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted April 2, 2009 Author Share Posted April 2, 2009 This is true, I dont play games at all. Link to comment
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