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was truthful to the girl i like and had it BACKFIRE


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i like a girl and she likes me, but is still hooked on her ex. so i have been very delicate and tried to be more of a friend type recently. i am actually seeing another woman seriously but still care for this girl. i told her that she "should have more self respect for herself" because she is like a doormat to other people. its the truth and it hurts but she needed to hear it. she also seems to make all her friends eventually enemies. she has a lot of issues. any way i am really good to her but recently after telling her that she flipped a couple days later. i flipped in return to try and figure what i did so back. texting back and fourth then she was treating me like an annoying boyfriend and took me off her bbm messenger! ... over a few texts and one email message she is acting like im a nuscence when I was just wondering what i did wrong in the first place.

 

im obviously not going to contact her but i was only being truthful because sometimes i feel like people need to here the truth. is telling someone the truth even when it hurts a bad choice? geez now i feel like a physcho b/f and she made a bigger deal about it than it was. all this1 day after i took her and 2 friends on a vacation to vegas. i feel terrible because she was a close friend and i was always good to her.

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Give it time. If you two were close friends it'll just take her some time, shes not going to stay mad at you forever. just give her the space she needs, if she doesn't contact you in a couple weeks contact her and apologize for your behaviour and ask if she wants to talk.

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