canusa Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 I am currently dating a girl who was with this guy for about 10 years. This guy happens to be a "movie star". After years of being friends with benefits she says she "moved on" and they remained friends for the last 6 years. Text messages, phone calls and occasional contact. She has never been in a serious relationship with anyone and she is now 36 yrs old. This "movie star" friend of hers happens to be a scumbag pig that tries to score as much ass as he can. I find it really hard to believe that someone like this would keep her in his life without sexual contact. She has admitted to lying about the time frame they were together. Within the last few years she has even stayed with this guy in a hotel room. I am not an insecure person but if she's really over sleeping with the guy and vise versa why does this friendship continue to go on after 16 years? I would love some input form the ladies out there. I really like this girl but I don't know if I believe her, trust her or can get over it. Link to comment
Sweet Venus Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Hmmmmmm just curious who the "movie star" is....but either way, I think all you can do is trust her or think the worst. Staying with someone in a hotel doesn't mean anything is going on, but it certainly increases the chances. Link to comment
hayky3126 Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 I wouldnt believe it! First of all, its very unlikely that they have stopped sleeping together. Once you sleep with someone and that becomes familiar... its too hard to just STOP! Second, i think the only real reason anybody gets a hotel room is for sleeping with somebody when the home isnt convenient.... Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted April 1, 2009 Share Posted April 1, 2009 Yeah, that hotel bit doesn't sound like good news at all... I guess it depends how much you trust her. Have you tried talking to her about how this is affecting you? Link to comment
canusa Posted April 1, 2009 Author Share Posted April 1, 2009 The hotel thing was before we met, however I don't want to get involved with someone that has a lifelong crush on anyone. Who continues to screw someone for 10 + years when it didn't work out? Link to comment
WizardofOz Posted April 2, 2009 Share Posted April 2, 2009 How long have you two been dating for? If it hasn't been too long, I would stop seeing her. She clearly still has feelings for this guy and do you really want to keep wondering what is going on? Link to comment
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