hei Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 I'm a virgin, 23 years old, I haven't been touched there for years, and now I'm bit well.. nervous isn't the right word.. Anyway, when I was younger , I'd get an erection for (to me) no apparant reason. This doesn't happen much anymore. I guess this is a good thing. But there's a dark side to it aswell, which is I'm almost scared, should I come in a situation where I'd need it to work, that it won't. Can I safely assume it will pop up "on demand" if the situation requires as much? Just to clear up, yes, I'm still getting hard every now and then at random, so I'm not saying it doesn't happen anymore. This is probably all part of growing up a little from the early high school years. When you haven't had a use for it before though, you never know, and I'd like to not be disapointed if given the chance. All this is not something that's happened overnight ofcourse, which makes me think it's, as I said, all part of growing up.. I realize this post didn't transfer as nicely as expected from thoughts to words, but try to grasp the point Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Well, do you get an erection when you masturbate??? If you do without any problem, then you're functional! Link to comment
turkieblue Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 relax. just relax. Almost go to sleep. Your first night with someone might not go so great, because you're nervous, or you've been drinking alot, or you jacked earlier that day, there's lots of things that can block an erection. But trust your * * * * , when you can relax and feel comfortable around someone, it'll get hard. Don;t believe me? if you're in a relationship, and you get hard when around your partner, either when they touch you (like hold hands/rub side of your leg) or look sexy for/at you, it'll definitely get hard when they start "enjoying" you. Link to comment
alli Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Well, do you get an erection when you masturbate??? If you do without any problem, then you're functional! That's the surest way to find out quick! Plus, a lot of times when you start seeing someone you will probably do stuff but not go all the way the first time, so you will know then. You should watch this music video and be grateful that this isn't your problem! ha! Link to comment
hei Posted March 30, 2009 Author Share Posted March 30, 2009 Yeah, I can make it work by masturbating, so I know it does work. I just don't know how often, I guess this means it's premature performance anxiety hah that's not a good thing. If I end up having a girl on my lap for some reason, I guess it's a good thing not to pop up right then and there though.. Yes, I've been thinking about that turkie, but I really have no immediate plans of going for a one-night-stand to get it overwidth. More controlled environments is better. Is it normal to need some hands-on work done for things to work, given the situation and surroundings are comfortable, or should I expect it to get the job done by itself, while I sit back and watch or w/e? Youtube vid doesn't work in my country it seems, oh well Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 I wouldn't worry about it too much. I'm sure when the right time and the right girl comes along, your tool will be working just fine. Sure, it may get shaky in the beginning, but practice makes perfect. If you put too much stress and emphasis on it, you may turn limp. Just try to relax and seize the moment. Link to comment
alli Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Is it normal to need some hands-on work done for things to work, given the situation and surroundings are comfortable, or should I expect it to get the job done by itself, while I sit back and watch or w/e? Youtube vid doesn't work in my country it seems, oh well Well, I'm not entirely certain at what exactly you are asking, but I think it gets "perky" when you are aroused, and you can become aroused either through being physically touched or just thinking about something that turns you on. And once it's up you've got some work to do! There's not a lot of sitting back & watching! The youtube video is called "Jizz in my Pants" by the Lonely Island. It's supposed to be a joke, with these guys ejaculating first to good looking women, then a phone message from a girl, then a breeze from an open window or eating a grape. It's silly... kinda funny & gross at the same time! Link to comment
hei Posted March 31, 2009 Author Share Posted March 31, 2009 I'll try to explain what I ment. Imagine a car. Most people want it to start whenever they need it, without having to find the jumper cables, and get another car to help. It's definitely annoying, and can be somewhat embarrasing and cause extra stress aswell. Basically, I want it to pop up when the time is right. Can I safely assume it will, or should I be prepared to give it a kick in the butt and help it by say masturbating a little bit before I'm of any use to another person? I'm not sure that helped Haha, I was able to watch the youtube video now, was well worth the 2.30 it took to get through =) Link to comment
alli Posted March 31, 2009 Share Posted March 31, 2009 Ah, ok I see. I honestly don't think you should worry about it. I think the car should be fine starting whenever you need it to. Even if it doesn't, part of the fun could be getting the girl to help "start" it! Link to comment
hei Posted March 31, 2009 Author Share Posted March 31, 2009 Hah, she better know how to drive aswell then! I've been to youtube before Thanks! Link to comment
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