hollowspace Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Hi everyone. Im a girl currently studying in final year of my college. Me and my close friend are really in love with each other. She love me more than anyone could ever love me. We found out abouth each others feelings about a year back. We arent lesbians but bi. Now all we want to do is spend the rest of our lives together. We cant live without each other. But both of our families want us to get married soon and settle. We dont have the guts to tell our families about our love for each other. We need a way to over come obstacles and live with each other. Any one has any idea about what we can do. Please do reply. We are in a very miserable condition. thanks Link to comment
chiefoptimizer Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Hi everyone. Im a girl currently studying in final year of my college. Me and my close friend are really in love with each other. She love me more than anyone could ever love me. We found out abouth each others feelings about a year back. We arent lesbians but bi. Now all we want to do is spend the rest of our lives together. We cant live without each other. But both of our families want us to get married soon and settle. We dont have the guts to tell our families about our love for each other. We need a way to over come obstacles and live with each other. Any one has any idea about what we can do. Please do reply. We are in a very miserable condition. thanks Hey, sorry to hear you are feeling low, let's see... What country do you live in? Are your parents religious? Do you know how they feel about same sex relations? Are you girls supported at college by your families? When you say college, you mean british college or american for university? How old are you both? We can't really offer much advice without knowing some or all of these... Link to comment
hollowspace Posted March 30, 2009 Author Share Posted March 30, 2009 we are 22 years old and belong to india. Our parents are very religious and will not accept this relationship in any way. No one knows about our relationship. But our friends know dat we are a little more than just friends, but they have nevr questioned us about this. Also we both have boyfriends from the time before we realised our feelings for each other. We are going thru a lot of pain. We dont know where to go or what to do. After being with her i cant even think about getting physical with my bf. It feels as if im betraying her. I only need her in my life now Link to comment
chiefoptimizer Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 we are 22 years old and belong to india. Our parents are very religious and will not accept this relationship in any way. No one knows about our relationship. But our friends know dat we are a little more than just friends, but they have nevr questioned us about this. Also we both have boyfriends from the time before we realised our feelings for each other. We are going thru a lot of pain. We dont know where to go or what to do. After being with her i cant even think about getting physical with my bf. It feels as if im betraying her. I only need her in my life now Ouch! I don't really know what to tell you.... I come from an indian background myself, so I understand... You mentionned both having been to college...is there any way you could move to another country where you'd be more welcome? Or just move away from where your parents live, India is a big place...I don't know where would be safe, but that's what I would start searching for...maybe a bigger city... Link to comment
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