bmc Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 okay this is a long story but i will try to shorten it as much as i can. i met this girl at a party who we can call "girl a." she was perfet for me, beautiful smart, funny, into sports, everything i ever wanted. we made out all that night and started texting 24/7 the next day. we were together for about three and a half months and while it wasnt the longest realtionship ive been in it was easily the best. we were both crazy about eachother. we were both very busy people, me playing a high level of hockey and her playing numerous school sports. we hadnt hung out in a while and i could tell her heart wwasnt into it, so i confronted her about it and she said she want to hang out again to see if we could still make this work. we did and it did. she said the only reason she thought she lost feelings for me was cause we hadnt seen eachother in a while. now a few weeks later this happens again but this time she ends it before we could hang out. im not the type of guy who gets hung up on girls but with her i did. we stayed friends and texted every now and then. i went out and got my re bound girl at a party, then got into another realtionship that didnt last long cause im fairly certain we were both in it for physical reasons. after that one ended i started seeing probably the hottest girl at my school. shes absolutely gorgeous and we can call her "girl b." shes beautiful, and a really nice girl. everything is going great except for the fact that we never hang out. she always has an excuse but assures me that it isnt cause she just doesnt want to hang out with me. im pretty sure it was just cause shes a little shy. we finally get to hang out the other day and we watch a movie and cuddle and when i leave a get a goodnight kiss. everything was going great. the next day i go to a party and she cant make it. who do i happen to run into there but "girl a." we talk alot and when she leaves she gives me a hug. which at the time i enterpreted as purely platonic. the next day me and "girl a" both leave on separate trips. she texts me on her drive and says how the best part of her night was getting to see me, and how when we both get back we have to hang out. at this point i still think this is platonic. then she goes on to make little comments like "your so funny," and "your such a nice guy," and stuff like that. anyways were saying goodbye and i told her to have fun on her trip when she says "thanks cutie!" which is something i hadnt heard since we broke up. now im convincer she may want to give us another try. im in a position envious to probably most guys i have two beautifull women who wnat to be with me. but im torn on what to do. im with "girl b" and feel like i owe it to her to give us a shot. i mean i did with "girl a" and it just didnt seem to work. i dont want to hurt "girl b" cause shes just so nice and innocent, but i think my heart truly want to be with "girl a." i need some help please! is "girl a" just being friendly or did seeing me bring back all those feelings for her? what do i do?!? thanks you in advance for reading and helping me out Link to comment
rivercitystein Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Do you have time to date girl a this time around? Sounds like not having time for each other is what broke you up before? Don't string girl b along. She doesn' deserve that. How long have you been dating girl b? Link to comment
jenny_mcs Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 Well, let me get this straight. Girl A dumped you. You met Girl B. Girl B doesn't want to spend much time with you. You finally spend an evening with Girl B and you get a good night kiss. Then you go to a party. Girl A is there, and is nice, and gives you a hug good-bye. Later she sends you a few flirtatious texts. I pretty much disagree with this: im in a position envious to probably most guys i have two beautifull women who wnat to be with me. Based on your posts, I'm not sure either women are that crazy about you. It sounds like you like Girl A more, and it doesn't sound like Girl B is that into you. What do you want to do? Link to comment
bmc Posted March 30, 2009 Author Share Posted March 30, 2009 Do you have time to date girl a this time around? Sounds like not having time for each other is what broke you up before? Don't string girl b along. She doesn' deserve that. How long have you been dating girl b? yep we both have time now, and weve been seein eachother for about a month Link to comment
rivercitystein Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 If your heart is with girl a, then I say go for it, but not until you officially break it off with girl b. Link to comment
bmc Posted March 30, 2009 Author Share Posted March 30, 2009 Well, let me get this straight. Girl A dumped you. You met Girl B. Girl B doesn't want to spend much time with you. You finally spend an evening with Girl B and you get a good night kiss. Then you go to a party. Girl A is there, and is nice, and gives you a hug good-bye. Later she sends you a few flirtatious texts. I pretty much disagree with this: Based on your posts, I'm not sure either women are that crazy about you. It sounds like you like Girl A more, and it doesn't sound like Girl B is that into you. What do you want to do? well knwing girl a i feel that she was really into me and the only reason we broke up was because we never hung out, then seeing me brought those feelings back. and from talking to mutual friends of girl b apparently she does like me but shes jsut shy and younger and didnt want to rush things and that why she cancelled now she wants to hang out with me as soon as i get back from my trip Link to comment
bmc Posted March 30, 2009 Author Share Posted March 30, 2009 If your heart is with girl a, then I say go for it, but not until you officially break it off with girl b. thanks for your time and advice Link to comment
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