Guy Friends vs. the Stupid Guy

[Radίaηce]

I'm so frustrated. All my friends are guys; most that want to date me. None have ever mentioned it on a billboard, but definitely dropped signs in subtle ways, and well...you usually just know when someone likes you, or wants to get to know you. My guy friends are awesome "good guys" that are intelligent, funny, and SO MUCH FUN to be around. They always respect me, never make me feel uncomfortable, we all have great conversations together and get along well. I treat all my friends more than well, i'm positive and like to surround myself with positive individuals. I'm naturally entertaining, so i can definitely see why they may be attracted to me, but why on earth are all the other guys attracted to me except that ONE "STUPID" GUY. ](*,)

[dolcedolore]

Ohhh... I can understand your frustration. I mean, it's great that you're getting a lot of attention from your guy friends and that you feel wanted. But at the end of the day... there's only one guy that you want and he's not showing you that affection.

 

Are you sure he's not attracted to you? Have you told him how you feel?

[flash83]

there could be a thousand reasons why .. you'd have to give us more information. he could very well be into you.. just not as obvious.

 

also what do you mean by stupid? is he different from the others? or you just calling him that?

[Yates33]

there could be a thousand reasons why .. you'd have to give us more information. he could very well be into you.. just not as obvious.

 

also what do you mean by stupid? is he different from the others? or you just calling him that?

 

When a girl gets so much attention they are usually drawn to the guy who won't give it to them, because in their minds they wonder, "why isn't he all over me like these other guys?"...that's the "stupid" guy she is talking about. Falls in line with the "girls like bad boys" ... which they do, just don't conciously realize or admit because "bad boy" does not necessarily mean "jerk" and that's what they think.

[Yanet]

Maybe he doesn't think as highly of you as you do.

[Radίaηce]

 

Are you sure he's not attracted to you? Have you told him how you feel?

 

I'm PRETTY sure he is or maybe was? attracted to me. I didn't think anything of it ALL at first, but then i became attracted to him. I didn't tell him how i felt, because... i... sort of cut him off. He mentioned to me that he was freshly out of a relationship, and basically i'm not gunna wait around on the side being a rebound. Plus i think he's either back with his ex trying to work things out, or maybe has a new REBOUND girlfriend???

 

there could be a thousand reasons why .. you'd have to give us more information. he could very well be into you.. just not as obvious.

 

also what do you mean by stupid? is he different from the others? or you just calling him that?

 

He's not really stupid, i was just venting. He's actually very bright, but not the brightest one in the crayon box if he can't see i'm the bonus metallic one that stands out! I guess once i noticed he was into me, i started to observe him (i'm an observer), and forgot to do it more naturally, but i was so intrigued by him i couldn't help it.

 

When a girl gets so much attention they are usually drawn to the guy who won't give it to them, because in their minds they wonder, "why isn't he all over me like these other guys.

 

See, that's the thing...is that my guy friends are so respectful towards me. They DON'T hang out all over me at all. Just treat me very well, as i treat them. He's not a "bad boy" either. I'm not attracted to those types of men. Learned my lesson once! No need to repeat.