renaissancewoman101 Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 "P" to come to our mutual friend's house to play WoW with me tomorrow afternoon? Yesterday, I went over to the mutual friend's house to play WoW and we all played for a few hours. Afterwards, the mutual friend and I sat up chatting about WoW strategies. He then told me that if I want to do a dungeon run, we can do it Sunday afternoon, after practice, since some people will be around. I asked him if "P" was coming down to his house tomorrow. I told him that I would like it if he joined us in the raid. He told me that he didn't know "P"'s schedule, but if I wanted him to come over to play WoW, I should ask him. He's like "yeah, go ask P if he wants to come and play. He'd probably do it if you asked". Should I ask or is it too forward, this early in the thing? And if I ask him, it will definitely send him a clear signal I like him, esp because we can play as a group respectively from our own homes because it is an online game. I just would like to see him again. If I ask, I'd probably email him. What u guys think? Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Go for it! What could it hurt? You're not asking "P" to marry you, haha. You're asking "P" to come and hang out and do something you have a mutual interest in. If you don't do it, you'll probably just wonder what would have happened if you did. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 I just feel weird asking him because it will really show I like him. It might also feel like I am bugging him to go out of his way since we call ALL play together online, since WoW runs on an online platform Also, the only way I can ask him is to email him. He doesn't have a cell phone. He does have a home phone but I feel odd calling his house phone. The mutual friend thinks I should ask him to come down and play. Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 "This early"? How long has this been going on? Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 "This early"? How long has this been going on? I mean this early in the "game" of attraction because I have been attracted to "P" for quite a long time now, but never been able to make the move. I could email him via Facebook. I dunno. I don't want to ask and have him decline. Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Is this the guy you have a crush on? Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 Is this the guy you have a crush on? Yes it is. I have been posting quite a few threads about him in the past month or so. Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Yes it is. I have been posting quite a few threads about him in the past month or so. Just ask him, I really don't see the big deal. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Just ask him, I really don't see the big deal. Ditto....... Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 since it's a group event, i don't see why not. but be prepared - it's saturday, and he may already have other plans, so don't take it too hard if he says no. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 since it's a group event, i don't see why not. but be prepared - it's saturday, and he may already have other plans, so don't take it too hard if he says no. No this is for Sunday. The mutual friend wants to do the dungeon run Sunday afternoon, after practice, since quite a few people will come over to his house to hang out. If I ask, I will ask this afternoon, via email Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 No email! Call him. He doesn't have a cell phone. I have his house phone number but he lives with his parents and I would feel weird calling him about this. Link to comment
penelope13 Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Just ask him. - Have you absored any of the advice from your previous posts in regards to P? Link to comment
Siriana Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 I have his house phone number but he lives with his parents and I would feel weird calling him about this. How old is he - is he of your age? The reason why I ask is because I noticed you guys have different standard in the States and living with your parents after certain age is not so common. It got me little bit worried how ideal it would be choosing to date a guy who might be 34?, into WOW,living with his parents plus not having a mobile for at least a little bit of privacy. I apologize if this was too frank Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 How old is he - is he of your age? The reason why I ask is because I noticed you guys have different standard in the States and living with your parents after certain age is not so common. It got me little bit worried how ideal it would be choosing to date a guy who might be 34?, into WOW,living with his parents plus not having a mobile for at least a little bit of privacy. I apologize if this was too frank No, it's fine. I do admire frankness in people. This is the same guy I have been talking about in my last few threads. I have a crush on him and we have known each other a few months. Nowadays, it seems to be more common for people to live at home OR move back home due to the economic crisis and people losing their jobs and homes. In many ways, he is VERY similar to my ex. Kind of scary. "P" is 33 years old. Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 yeah, i was thinking, he sounds kind of similar to your immature ex. is it that this guy is immature, or has he had to move back home with his parents due to being laid off? Link to comment
Daligal83 Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Ren you're putting too much thought into it. Just call or email and see if he wants to come. Calling would be better because there's a good chance he wouldn't see the email in time. Take that chance. I don't get why you are afraid of him knowing that you're interested....didn't you say before that he already does know for sure? So nothing to be afraid of. Sometimes we have to just take those risks. If we always hold back because of our fears, we'll miss out on so much. Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 No offense and I will be frank,but what attracts you to him? Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 yeah, i was thinking, he sounds kind of similar to your immature ex. is it that this guy is immature, or has he had to move back home with his parents due to being laid off? I'm not sure. I think he has lived out on his own for a year or so. Link to comment
KG Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Renny, Go for the gusto.... Take the bull by the horns, and any other cheap cliche I can think of.... DO IT NOW! LOL! Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Renny, Go for the gusto.... Take the bull by the horns, and any other cheap cliche I can think of.... DO IT NOW! LOL! I fully agree with KG Renny.... This has been going on a long time hon. C'mon now...get on with it! Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Ask him now, start typing that email! Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Ask him now, start typing that email! Go Renny, Go Renny! Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 She must be doing it now because she hasn't replied. Link to comment
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