uj2004 Posted March 27, 2009 Share Posted March 27, 2009 Not the kind of landmark number I feel like celebrating I guess this being my first post in the Healing forum, rather than the breaking up, means I am making some sort of stunted progress, yeah? Is it natural to feel the pinch a bit after having some good days recently? Today is Day 12 of No Contact, and exactly 4 weeks since she left me (after 3+ years, and straight into a rebound I assume she is still in). It feels really strange. I have her blocked on msn, but have seen her there the past 3 days, which also seems strange, as this guy lives around the corner from her. Not sure why all of a sudden she is on msn looking to chat so hard - there shouldn't be time, what with the new hero in her life and work. Anyway, I guess I just head to work today and keep on keeping on, in the knowledge I am being strong and staying away from her, as much as it hurts. Link to comment
sweetarts26 Posted March 27, 2009 Share Posted March 27, 2009 I just wanted to say Congrats! I know you don't feel like celebrating, but you should be proud of yourself. When my last BF dumped me I groveled and begged and asked WHY???! Basically totally humiliated myself. I wish I had the strength you have exhibited. Good for you Link to comment
giggidy Posted March 27, 2009 Share Posted March 27, 2009 hey i feel for you! it's been 5 weeks for me, of NC and after the breakup. she also jumped into a rebound three days after we broke up... and in addition, we also were together for about three years. let me know how things go for you. i've been reading short stories about breakups and it makes me feel better. even though she's straight into a rebound, I'm still trying to not care... it's hard. excpecially since the dude is a * * * * * * * .. makes me feel like i've been replaced by a goober. that's the only thing that's hard for me. Link to comment
uj2004 Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 hey i feel for you! it's been 5 weeks for me, of NC and after the breakup. she also jumped into a rebound three days after we broke up... and in addition, we also were together for about three years. let me know how things go for you. i've been reading short stories about breakups and it makes me feel better. even though she's straight into a rebound, I'm still trying to not care... it's hard. excpecially since the dude is a * * * * * * * .. makes me feel like i've been replaced by a goober. that's the only thing that's hard for me. I have somehow managed to mostly forget about him, which is easier with NC, since you don't have to hear about them. When she was still in my life, I would have to deal with knowing she fit time with me around him, and would even talk about him in a glowing light - no thanks. I guess she is out there, without and care, and probably resents me for initiating no contact. Like I am the one who did something wrong....right Link to comment
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