Am I being a pest?

[semaj612]

I asked out my crush to go to the gym with me, we went two days ago together. I asked her today and told me she has a meeting but is not sure yet if the times will conflict. Can I ask her later on tonight if she wants to go or not, or is it to annoying?

Not to mention, she might be testing me, she might want me to ask her later to show Im interested because we have been friends for a long time but our reltionship has definitely stepped up recently. And when we went last time their was definitely a slot where I could have asked her out but I missed it.

[indierockgrl]

if you asked her and she said she didnt know.. i would let her figure out her schedule and get back to you. I would think the ball is in her court now.

[girl68]

Ask again, why not she hasn't said I'll let you know. Just be like "so, you going to be busy a ***?" If she says she still doesn't know then drop it for good.

[COtuner]

I do this too - I feel like I'm being too eager or pestering them. Usually I am and back off. Odds are good, you might as well let it go for now, let some time pass.

[Yanet]

Why did you go to the gym for your "date"? It's pretty hard to talk, flirt etc. when each person is exercising away. Unless you two went there and played around on the machines like kids in an amusement park? If so, awesome.

[semaj612]

We worked out at for like 15 minutes then decided to go play raquet ball. And thats when the flirting and playing around happened like little kids.