IV2008 Posted March 26, 2009 Share Posted March 26, 2009 For lots of reasons...was away attending a conference the last few days. Don't know why I expected ex-bf/current 'friend' to call and wish me luck for my presentation. Seems to me he only calls when he needs something. Plus, the fact I don't know what I want to do after I finish my Ph.D in a few months- love my work but just need a break from it I think. All my friends seem to be settling down and the fact that I don't have anyone special to call after anything good just adds to it all. Just needed to vent... Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 26, 2009 Share Posted March 26, 2009 ((HUGS))) i understand. you know, i would forget about your ex, and start focusing on your bright future. start looking up some job opportunities and think about where you may want to move. forget the ex. Link to comment
odile Posted March 27, 2009 Share Posted March 27, 2009 Wow, congratulations on nearly finishing your PhD! It hurts to be let down by those we care about, but it's great that you're not letting this get in the way of your life. Good on you for going to the conference. How did the presentation go, anyway? OH, by the way-- at age 25 and a blossoming career, don't worry your pretty head about settling down just yet. You've got plenty of time! The right guy will come when the time is right. Link to comment
IV2008 Posted March 28, 2009 Author Share Posted March 28, 2009 Thanks, it was pretty good. The trouble with finishing the Ph.D is finding a job afterwards Maybe a year off wouldn't be such a bad idea. =) Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 i'm working on finishing my PhD also. people have told me to start looking about 1 year before you plan to graduate for your next job. so, get out there and start applying! Link to comment
odile Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 Thanks, it was pretty good. (if there was a thumbs-up emoticon, I'd be putting it right here). The trouble with finishing the Ph.D is finding a job afterwards Maybe a year off wouldn't be such a bad idea. =) Hey, if you can afford to do that, why not. If you have an advisor, it might good to talk to them about the best way to manage your career after graduating. If it's important to start networking for a job now, then be sure not to fall behind. If you do decide to take time off, there might be some good internship or work-related volunteer gigs that will keep you busy and learning, and maybe even traveling, before entering the workforce. The world is your oyster! Link to comment
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