Would you tell your crush how you really feel?

[shy2cool]

Yes / No?

 

I am getting a bit tempted to...... it would definitely remove some awkward moments!!

[jessicake]

it depends, are you friends with your crush?

 

but i would, if the circumstances are right... otherwise you will always be thinking "what if?"!!

 

what is the story behind it?

[COtuner]

I don't have that option - my crush is married. He can't ever know, and I am working to get past it.

 

If he weren't married, it would depend on circumstances. Given that we work together, I'd have to be darned sure that he wouldn't be the type to have a couple drinks and tell everyone what I said!! Would not bother me to tell him and take the chance otherwise.

[SoMuchLove]

Yes that's how I felt

No I wasn't sure that the feeling was mutual

 

One the chase is over the magic is lost. Not gameplaying. Just the way things are.

 

... Don't do it. Ask for a date or something. Keep her guessing.

[somethngwrng]

I have done in the past (most recently 2 weeks ago). I'll probably do it again in the future. Not more than once with the same girl though, I can take a hint.

[Brightest Dark]

If you are tempted to, you should.

 

I've tried being subtle and got no response. If you've tried nothing and are tempted I would just do it.

[waveseer]

I have embarrassed myself more times than I care to admit by sharing my feelings with a crush. But then again, here I am still standing and not ashamed to admit it. When it wasn't reciprocated though I distinctly remember wishing for a rock to crawl under immediately afterward. lol

[somethngwrng]

When it wasn't reciprocated though I distinctly remember wishing for a rock to crawl under immediately afterward. lol

I feel more liberated

 

The day or so leading up to it, I'm running a million different things to say through my head, worrying about the outcome. Once the outcome is known, it's like yeeeaaahhhh that's one less thing I need to worry about.

[Jake]

The girl never shares the same mutual feeling as me; either that or she soon ends up getting a boyfriend. I would never tell her my feelings...or at least not in the situations I've been in so far. It'd be hard too anyways because I have a hard time expressing myself in that area.

[COtuner]

I have embarrassed myself more times than I care to admit by sharing my feelings with a crush. But then again, here I am still standing and not ashamed to admit it. When it wasn't reciprocated though I distinctly remember wishing for a rock to crawl under immediately afterward. lol

 

Agreed. Went through that in college a lot. Also a couple times as an adult. Still would do it if it was a single guy in no way tied to me.