uj2004 Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 hey all. As I have documented here in another thread, I have gone NC with my ex as of 8 days ago, my choice. Now last night, I cracked a tad, checked her facebook under a random account, and saw she had deleted me from her friends list. It infuriated me, because I have done nothing wrong here, she broke up with me, via sms, and it wasn't because of a fight or anything. I was there in the friends list a week ago, after NC had started. I check my email today, and there is an invite to be her friend on facebook. Its to a different email to the one I had registered on her facebook page, actually to my normal email. The other email still had my full name on it, she knew it was me. I didnt leave a trail last night - its impossible she knew I looked at it, and I didn't send a friend request either. So what gives....is this a way of seeing that I still care, by seeing that I accept the request? For the record, I wont accept it anyway. Seems that without trying to get my hopes up, at all, she is trying to see what I am up to, that I am still breathing. Link to comment
Keyman Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 With all the changes going on in facebook land, I have found weird things going on. People that I have been friends with on FB are requesting my friendship on FB. Sure, I guess some people cull off some of their friends they never talk to, but to have so many send new friend requests? Makes me wonder if it's the facebook people themselves reloading something and it causing some to be dropped. In your case, it could be either, just seems odd for her to delete and then add again, unless by doing so it served her in some way... Link to comment
uj2004 Posted March 24, 2009 Author Share Posted March 24, 2009 Well she deleted me only, there was no one else gone. I think she might have deleted me when I told her I hated her and to not contact me for about a month, and then adding me again served a purpose in trying to see if I would make contact by responding. The email did only mention her email address and mine, it wasn't going to multiple people. Either way, even if I was mysteriously deleted, Im not sure why she would send an invite in the middle of NC. Link to comment
Keyman Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 Usually it only goes to one person. But based upon your statement of hate, I think that is why she deleted you and is fishing for contact. My advice would be to not try to view her page - no good can come of it - and try to avoid all contact with her. Link to comment
Bad Wolf Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 I'd say she's just trying to get your attention. Just ignore her and her request like you were going to. Link to comment
uj2004 Posted March 24, 2009 Author Share Posted March 24, 2009 Usually it only goes to one person. But based upon your statement of hate, I think that is why she deleted you and is fishing for contact. My advice would be to not try to view her page - no good can come of it - and try to avoid all contact with her. I agree mate. Do you know how I slept after finding out I was deleted? Not good, and I had just gotten back to sleeping ok. We were together for 3.5 years, 10 months apart but still seeing eachother last year, so its not like its a high school romance. There is something special between us that her new guy will never be able to erase. Link to comment
Pixiedoc Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 Maybe, but the fact that she even has someone else is not a good sign. I agree it's best to leave it at the moment. Link to comment
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