isn Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 I was doing some thinking today, as usual. I came up with a list of what i did to try and save our marriage and what my wife did? Bear with me here.... 1. Gave you space 2. Played by your timeline 3. Cried in front of you and your parents 4. Did counselling on my own 5. Changed my life around 6. Told you we would find our own place 7. Begged to do counselling together 8. Was verbally abused and torn apart by your parents 9. Sent you money 10.Cried to you on the phone 11. Have always admitted my mistakes 12. Never asked you to come back but just to do counselling What did she do? The exact opposite, lies and once again has not even admitted to one fault... a bit of a vent.... Link to comment
Breaking Away Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 have you taken responsibility for your part in where things have went wrong? have you evaluated what you could have done differently during the relationship? why are her parents so angry with you- you must have done something to cause that anger? Link to comment
isn Posted March 24, 2009 Author Share Posted March 24, 2009 have you taken responsibility for your part in where things have went wrong? have you evaluated what you could have done differently during the relationship? why are her parents so angry with you- you must have done something to cause that anger? Hi I have taken all the responsibility and have actually done stuff about it. I am the only one who actually has worked towards trying to save it. Her parents never were happy with us. They are old fashioned and I am sure they are happy its over. Plus she told them only her side and made me into a monster. Link to comment
Breaking Away Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 most people only tell their side of the story- so you can't fault her for that. very few people when they are hurt and angry can even come to a place where they realize they were at fault as well. that being said- why did the marriage end? Link to comment
isn Posted March 24, 2009 Author Share Posted March 24, 2009 three years of fighting and the final blow was a text message. the marriage can be saved, but its impossible if I only want to save it Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 I'm sorry you have to go through this but buddy this broad isn't worth your time. Time to Man Up and drop her like she hot. Show her the opposite side the one that doesn't seem to care anymore, doesn't send money, doesn't cry, and cut out all contact with her. Leave her thinking. Get mad. GET FRICK'N MAD ABOUT THIS! She's a pimple on the a$$ of life. Let her and her parents pound sand. They'll all figure it out in time. Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 three years of fighting and the final blow was a text message. the marriage can be saved, but its impossible if I only want to save it What's to save? Dude I know this hurts and I feel for ya. She left the marriage, probably some time ago too. Those stories of you being a monster have been going on for awhile. Forget her. Be a better man and find someone who deserves you. Link to comment
isn Posted March 24, 2009 Author Share Posted March 24, 2009 LOL...thats great man....my thoughts exactly Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 Thank you.... thank you.... I'll be here all week. Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 You have to hate these rough spots in our lives. Learn from this. Grow from this. It's a crappy lesson but the fact that it is a lesson is reason to take it in. You know you don't want to take that class over again. Link to comment
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