Laura11111 Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 Hmmm...over a week later and I'm still shocked and sad that he left me for an ex from three years ago. I've never heard of that before. I know people break-up and get back together all the time but three years later? Can that actually work? BTW, he is 26 now so he would have only been 23. It makes me wonder, what's the longest break you've had with an SI? When you got back together, did it work? If not, how long did it take you to realize it wasn't going to? Link to comment
pumpkinmoon Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 I think the longer the break the more likely that the relationship will work the second time around. Link to comment
COtuner Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 6 months was the longest. It did NOT work when we got back together. I'm in the middle of a return from a 3 month break, and it is not working either. I think I agree with shoefairy - at least if you were going to put odds on it. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 i had an ex from 8 years ago that i would date again. back then, we were young, in party mode, etc. the timing was bad and it wouldn't have worked out for me and any girl i met back then. Link to comment
jcrisph Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 4-5 years i broke up with a girl when she was 19..i was 20...we recently started talking dating some last year...found out that every time she broke up with her current bf, she would run back to me for a few months..then go back to him again..happened twice then i finally ended it.. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 Are you hoping that he comes back to you? Stay strong. I know this hurts. Just try not to obsess about them. Link to comment
Laura11111 Posted March 25, 2009 Author Share Posted March 25, 2009 Are you hoping that he comes back to you? Stay strong. I know this hurts. Just try not to obsess about them. Haha...yeah. It's not stopping me from looking though. If I find a guy I like, I won't hesitate to go out with him. I'm just so damn picky though so it'll be a while until I find someone I like. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 It was just 4 days for me and my boyfriend during last summer. We were both a wreck. We agreed changed had to be made, and since then we've been happier then ever! Link to comment
Shawngs2 Posted March 26, 2009 Share Posted March 26, 2009 My girlfriend and I broke up the beginning of the month. I hate it, and I would love to hear some stories too. I would like to have hope that it could work still. I wish i could answer your q. I was left, she said it wasn't me... blah blah. I've heard that before, only this time, she has no idea who she is, and she is having a nervous breakdown... so it may be the case. I wish you the best with your ex, if he doesn't come back, I wish you the best with the next one. I'm 26 also, and it sucks. (so is my now ex) Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted March 26, 2009 Share Posted March 26, 2009 Ah, yes it has only been a week. Still a really tough time. Hang in there. Link to comment
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