fatcat1999 Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 I think I got tired of the dinner date and want to do some "activity" type of dating which doesn't require too much of talking. I've thought about dancing clubs and rock climbing, but we're both late 20s and he's a shy sensitive type of guy and doesn't like watching sports. thanks for any suggestions. Link to comment
volpe Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 bowling is fun! i went on a date the other day... and we did that... also any place where they have games, trivia... Link to comment
fatcat1999 Posted March 23, 2009 Author Share Posted March 23, 2009 just another quick question. do you think rock climbing or dancing is more for younger people?( I think I got tired of the dinner date and want to do some "activity" type of dating which doesn't require too much of talking. I've thought about dancing clubs and rock climbing, but we're both late 20s and he's a shy sensitive type of guy and doesn't like watching sports. thanks for any suggestions. Link to comment
shikashika Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 I find this difficult to answer because what is the point of dating if you aren't talking to each other? if you like dancing, but not dance clubs, you could take dance lessons, or see if your community city offers cooking classes? My friend told me how they went on a thai cooking class date and really enjoyed it. Link to comment
Keyman Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 just another quick question. do you think rock climbing or dancing is more for younger people?( NO! I started really going out dancing at 29 (although I stopped so much at 32 as everyone else in the clubs are like 12) and at 37 am still rock climbing. Link to comment
volpe Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 I find this difficult to answer because what is the point of dating if you aren't talking to each other? if you like dancing, but not dance clubs, you could take dance lessons, or see if your community city offers cooking classes? My friend told me how they went on a thai cooking class date and really enjoyed it. sometimes it just nice to do activity together without talking, you get to know a different aspect of the person. Link to comment
grymoire Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 sometimes it just nice to do activity together without talking, you get to know a different aspect of the person. how about sex? Link to comment
shikashika Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 NO! I started really going out dancing at 29 (although I stopped so much at 32 as everyone else in the clubs are like 12) and at 37 am still rock climbing. I have plenty of friends who love going out dancing and are in their late thirties/ forties. These same friends also like rock climbing... but yeah it can be annoying if everyone else in the clubs was born in 1992! some clubs in some cities get a more diverse/ older crowd... depends on where you are! Link to comment
shikashika Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 sometimes it just nice to do activity together without talking, you get to know a different aspect of the person. I'm being serious.. but what.. their smell? their taste? What do you do, as grymoire mentioned that doesn't involve sex? Link to comment
fatcat1999 Posted March 24, 2009 Author Share Posted March 24, 2009 he means dating focuses on activities instead of mainly talking such as dinner date I'm being serious.. but what.. their smell? their taste? What do you do, as grymoire mentioned that doesn't involve sex? Link to comment
grymoire Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 you can watch movies in the theatre... you can't talk even if you want to Link to comment
jul-els Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 Movies require you to sit in the same room next to each other but other than that you don't really have anything to do with one another. The person sitting next to you could be anybody. You're not spending any time getting to know each other. I love bowling. It rocks! I don't think you can go wrong with that provided you find it at least marginally interesting. Link to comment
flash83 Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 im tired of dinner dates too .. what else is there? i was thinking go karting on top of rock climbing and bowling. also mini golf. Link to comment
volpe Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 how about sex? That's a great idea! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 -mini golf -bowling -arcade -bar/club for drinks -walk around the lake Link to comment
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