jamieJ Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 ok...me and my girl...met 3 years ago...we were perfect...for about a year...until i broke up with her one drunken night...tried the next day to get back with her but she wouldnt...3 months passed...i met someone else...so did she...i was happy...but she came back into my life...and wanted me back...i went (i know..im stupid)...but anyway...tried again for....8 months pass...great times....and we decide to take a "break"....gave rules...no kissing or hooking up...ya know...just to take time apart....well...she ends up hooking up with another guy...she lied to much about it till the guy told me that it happened and then she confessed....we broke up..time went on...and she eventually started up on me again...texting..caling..etc...we tried again...at this time she had 3 friends that hung with her all the time...a guy and girl...they were all best friends so she said....well...i left on a trip for the weekend...eveything seemed great...i came back...she picked me up at the airport and everything...ok...now the weird part.....a month passes...we were together all the time and doing everything together....we go on a date night...because she said she wanted a friend night the next day....but anyway after our date night...i go home and so does she...she breaks up with me out of no where....breaks my heart...shatters it....all she could say was that it wasnt the same and she was done....i agreed and said to never talk to me again......well time passes on and she comes back YET again..texting..calling...etc...at this point im so scared....but i told her not to come back to me until shes ready....a week passes....she calls and says to come up and i did....we start going real slow and she confesses her love and missing me and everything to me and how sorry she was for everything she had done to me....i believed it...yet again...(I KNOW..IM STUPID)....ok...a week passes as were still in our recovery....and go to her house and she tells me shes pregnant and that she was raped...(keep in mind she never would file charges cause she said her mom would kill her)...which i felt was a lie..but anyway....i stormed out and couldnt believe it but she cries and pleads for me to stay with her and not leave her....well i dont....as u can see im crazy in love with this girl.....but anyway...she ends up having an abortion.....about a month later....ok...well...i start catching a vibe between her and her "best guy friend"...weird messages on her myspace and shes hanging with her friends all the time....and not asking me to go places with them and stuff...so i kinda caught on....well she plans a trip to TN and just told me she was going with her friends (including her best guy friend) BUT never mentioned it one time asking me to go....that was it....i knew somethin was up....well....i meet her that morning and she loves on me and tells me she'll miss me and to trust her....i agreed....she leaves and the first night there she ends up cheating on me....she never admitted it but she did....and i knew it and she knew i knew it...i told her id have all her stuff at her house by the time she got back and all she coiuld say was for me to be careful.....so that pretty much gave it away.....my question is: DO you think she would honestly try to come back to me again??...i wouldnt take her back so dont mention nothing about that....but im just wondering what i should or might be expecting from her??...even though it kills me i will not be contacting her and usually everytime somethin like this has happened she'll start calling or texting a weekk or so later...but on her myspace and stuff it says how shes finally happy and everything...going from being and seeing eachother everyday to nothing...i dont know...just venting and i just cant see it to be over ya know....im sorry this was such a bad and long post but i just summed up like 3 years of my life in this paragraph basically... Link to comment
ezious Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 You have a history of getting back together and the relationship failing. The smart thing to do is to walk away. Once they cheat they are OUT FOREVER. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 You will get more replies if you break it down into paragraphs, its hard to read that way. Link to comment
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