Blackhawk2009 Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 and I have the whole conversation semi planned out..or rather what im going to ask...but. What should i say if her voice mail comes up? Should i ask her if she wants to get together on the day and time i have in mind or should i just tell her to call me back?? Whats the best approach? Thanks Link to comment
Roberto34 Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 Maybe you could give her a Text and ask if it's a good time to call her? If she says yes, then call her. If not, wait 'til another time to call her up. I hate talking to "machines," 'cause it's a 1-way street, and I feel awkward (unless it's someone I'm really familiar with). That leads to "weird" messages left by me. Link to comment
maverick554 Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 If you get the voicemail just say: "Hey its (your name), just calling to say whats up, call me back when you get this or I will talk to you later" Link to comment
Blackhawk2009 Posted March 23, 2009 Author Share Posted March 23, 2009 yea i called her last night and got her voicemail so i left a message just saying hi so and so its *name* guess your not around, ill try again later, call me back Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 I'm glad you called instead of texting. I wouldn't say, "Or I'll try you later", cause it doesn't really leave the ball in her court. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 yea i called her last night and got her voicemail so i left a message just saying hi so and so its *name* guess your not around, ill try again later, call me back you said both? should have just said for her to call you when she gets a chance, not that you will call her again later. Link to comment
Blackhawk2009 Posted March 23, 2009 Author Share Posted March 23, 2009 haha well it was by accident that i said call me back..i was like "crap" after i hung up.. and im keeping the ball in my court because saying call me back basically puts her in control and has me waiting for her to call back but its already been a day and she has not called back so either im just gonna wait a couple of days and invite her to go clubbin again on thursday or not text/call at all what do you guys think Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 23, 2009 Share Posted March 23, 2009 you don't wait though. you go about your business. you keep calling, getting voice mail, calling again, etc. makes you look desperate. Link to comment
Blackhawk2009 Posted March 24, 2009 Author Share Posted March 24, 2009 oh yea i dont plan on calling her again...she did say she would like to go to the club again sometime..i met her through my friends friend and i think we are all going again on thursday so we will see Link to comment
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