longdist123 Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 I really need someone to talk to, my girlfriend of one year is studying abroad, and we broke up with the intent to get back together when she gets back about a week ago, and she kissed another guy about 2 days after we took a "break" a few days before that. I couldn't deal with it, so the only solution was to break up, and now I want to die. I really would like to hear from someones perspective who went abroad while on a relationship, because shes turned into a different person and I just don't understand. I'd like to see some responses here but if anyone has AIM or something and would like to talk I'd greatly appreciate it. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 She is showing you her true colours. It wasn't the study abroad or distance that turned her into this. She was capable of cheating on you with such a coldness all along. You are much better off. Link to comment
longdist123 Posted March 18, 2009 Author Share Posted March 18, 2009 She is showing you her true colours. It wasn't the study abroad or distance that turned her into this. She was capable of cheating on you with such a coldness all along. You are much better off. She definitely wasn't capable of cheating on me when she was here, just when she got there she changed, just trust me on this. I know it seems like shes in the wrong here, but I want to try to look at this from her perspective. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 She definitely wasn't capable of cheating on me when she was here, just when she got there she changed, just trust me on this. I know it seems like shes in the wrong here, but I want to try to look at this from her perspective. She cheated on you and doesn't seem that guilty with it at all. Why are you trying to look at it from her perspective? Link to comment
longdist123 Posted March 18, 2009 Author Share Posted March 18, 2009 She cheated on you and doesn't seem that guilty with it at all. Why are you trying to look at it from her perspective? We were on a break.. which allowed for anything but sex to go on. So no, she didn't cheat on me, and she told me immediately. Link to comment
greywolf Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 Wait, but you two were on a break right? I don't really consider that cheating. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 Wait, but you two were on a break right? I don't really consider that cheating. I automatically see a break as something that doesn't involve other people. Mistook his definition. Link to comment
greywolf Posted March 18, 2009 Share Posted March 18, 2009 I automatically see a break as something that doesn't involve other people. Mistook his definition. I guess it would really depend on what they both agreed on, but to me a break seems a little pointless if you can't see other people during that time. Link to comment
tigger12 Posted March 19, 2009 Share Posted March 19, 2009 I'm sorry this happened to you! But I don't think it just studying abroad, especially considering information from your other thread. My boyfriend has been studying abroad for six months and I haven't seen such drastic changes in him. Link to comment
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