michiru Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 Humor me: decode guy speak. If a guy says "I'm not interested in anyone else" after you asked him if he likes someone else.. what does that mean? This is an ex boyfriend. He's still interested in you? Why would he say "I'm not interested in anyone else" instead of "I'm not interested in anyone" cause that would make more sense to me. Link to comment
LostInMyThoughts Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 How long have you 2 been broken up? Most guys are very literal. If he says "I'm not interested in anyone else." that means, he's not interested in anyone else. Link to comment
dhjjessel Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 yeah, that means to me he only wants you or is not over u Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 Did he break up with you? If yes, do NOT read into it. You are just hoping that he is interested in you. It;ll most likely hurt you. Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 He's still interested in you? correct grgrs Link to comment
michiru Posted March 16, 2009 Author Share Posted March 16, 2009 How long have you 2 been broken up? Most guys are very literal. If he says "I'm not interested in anyone else." that means, he's not interested in anyone else. a month now.. and i want to get back together Link to comment
michiru Posted March 16, 2009 Author Share Posted March 16, 2009 Did he break up with you? If yes, do NOT read into it. You are just hoping that he is interested in you. It;ll most likely hurt you. I broke up with him but realized i made a mistake.. i told him i wanted to get back together but he said this is what he needed.. a break.. because we had an issue in our relationship we can't find a solution for (him not interested in sex). Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 I broke up with him but realized i made a mistake.. i told him i wanted to get back together but he said this is what he needed.. a break.. because we had an issue in our relationship we can't find a solution for (him not interested in sex). He wants a break...give him a break. That break being you taking a break from thinking about him or what he wants. Focus on your wants. That's what he is doing. It'll be healthier for you both in the end. Link to comment
michiru Posted March 16, 2009 Author Share Posted March 16, 2009 He wants a break...give him a break. That break being you taking a break from thinking about him or what he wants. Focus on your wants. That's what he is doing. It'll be healthier for you both in the end. Yeah.. but he's the one that wanted the break.. not me.. I still want to be with him. I can't just stop thinking about him. I care about him a lot and there's a chance he's not coming back. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 Yeah.. but he's the one that wanted the break.. not me.. I still want to be with him. I can't just stop thinking about him. I care about him a lot and there's a chance he's not coming back. You did break up with him for a reason. Remember that. The best thing that you can do for YOURSELF and your relatonship if you get back together is to really take yourself away from thinking about him and focus on you. Link to comment
pumpkinmoon Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 I'm female but in my opinion if he broke up with you and said this he is probably saying it to make you feel better. He might mean it and be telling you the truth but it certainly doesn't mean that he won't be open to other people now he is single. Link to comment
pumpkinmoon Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 Sorry posted that before I read the entire thread. How did he take the break up? If he was fine with it and is not willing to get back with you it could be that he was waiting for you to end the relationship. Link to comment
michiru Posted March 16, 2009 Author Share Posted March 16, 2009 Sorry posted that before I read the entire thread. How did he take the break up? If he was fine with it and is not willing to get back with you it could be that he was waiting for you to end the relationship. He was really mad..but then calmed down. He called twice that day.. and said he doesn't know what else to do.. we've been struggling with our issue for the last year (been together almost 3 years). And no he wasn't waiting for me to break up with him.. just a week before our break up, he wanted to plan a vacation end of april (and we were planning another out of the country vacation for december 2009) Here is the complete story if you're interested: [thread]273915[/thread] Link to comment
michiru Posted March 16, 2009 Author Share Posted March 16, 2009 You did break up with him for a reason. Remember that. The best thing that you can do for YOURSELF and your relatonship if you get back together is to really take yourself away from thinking about him and focus on you. I think it's really complicated and I don't even know how to explain myself. I did break up with him but I was hoping this break up is what we needed.. but then i'm also afraid he won't come back to me.. but in the meantime, how else can we go around our issue? Original thread here: [thread]273915[/thread] Link to comment
pumpkinmoon Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 He was really mad..but then calmed down. He called twice that day.. and said he doesn't know what else to do.. we've been struggling with our issue for the last year (been together almost 3 years). And no he wasn't waiting for me to break up with him.. just a week before our break up, he wanted to plan a vacation end of april (and we were planning another out of the country vacation for december 2009) Here is the complete story if you're interested: [thread]273915[/thread] I will take a look at your story. From what you have written he just realised that when you did actually break up with him it was for the best. I will read your original thread though and get back to you. Link to comment
Rabican Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 because YOU asked him the question. I think its a subtle way of saying hes not interested in anyone.. except for you. Else means OTHER. It doesnt mean everyone. Do yourself a favor and say simply, so are you interested in me? You can phrase it flirty if youd like... so hot stuff does that mean you are not interested in anyone else except for me and then laugh.... Link to comment
michiru Posted March 17, 2009 Author Share Posted March 17, 2009 Do yourself a favor and say simply, so are you interested in me? You can phrase it flirty if youd like... so hot stuff does that mean you are not interested in anyone else except for me and then laugh.... I can't do that because we just broke up and he wants to have some space (when I told him I want to get back together a week after I broke up with him). Our last conversation did not end very well. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 it means he hasn't met anybody yet. Link to comment
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