does crying make you attractive

[treehouse7888]

is it okay to cry for the one you losing or try to win back or NOT cry and hide your feelings? will or does it make them show you really care and want them in your life? AND if someone cried for you tremendously, would it turn you on or off? and what would you do or think? etc.

[Jeremiah Johnson]

Depends if you're male or female...

[tina-rocks]

Nothing to be ashamed of when letting your feelings out even if it is in the form of tears.

 

We all have different ways in which we deal with loss. There are those of us who cry and others who chose to keep their emotions close to their chests. Either way, we are all human and it's better to express then repress our feelings.

[tulipsfav]

There is nothing wrong with crying and showing your feelings!! I respect people who can cry and open up. How else do you get rid of all the pent up feelings and stresses. I am a cryer and find it very hard to hide my feelings. I would not be put off by a guy who would cry in front of me.

[agent1607307371]

if someone cried for you tremendously, would it turn you on or off?

 

It would turn me off and I'd think that the person was a horrible manipulator.

 

It's ok to cry about losing someone, but to do it as a way of trying to get them back just seems terribly pathetic.

[bms85]

It would turn me off and I'd think that the person was a horrible manipulator.

 

It's ok to cry about losing someone, but to do it as a way of trying to get them back just seems terribly pathetic.

 

I agree completely.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

I don't think you can classify crying as attractive or unattractive...it just is. A person who no longer wants to be with someone would not change their mind one way or the other if the other person is crying. They may feel bad that the other person is hurting, but that won't make them change their mind if their decision is made. If the crying is not sincere and is pretty much an act to garner sympathy, or it is hysterical crying then that would be off-putting.

[thejigsup]

I'm turned off by anyone's tears, crying will definitely not make me either respect or empathize with you. I admire people who cry in private (you should let it out) and act dignified and strong in public. But that is how I was raised. You can disagree with this and I will see your point. This is just how I feel.

[lost1607307474]

Depends if you're male or female...

 

Why? So it's okay for females to cry but not okay for males to cry?

 

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with crying. It's a natural emotional release that sometimes you just can't help. Crying shows that you care and that you are human.

 

As for it being attractive, well I don't think it is neither attractive or unattractive. If you're blubbering away loudly and annoyingly perhaps that would be unattractive - I don't know lol! It really has not much to do with attractiveness.

[Jeremiah Johnson]

Why? So it's okay for females to cry but not okay for males to cry?

 

 

Chuck Norris doesn't cry

[HeartGoesOn]

I believe that crying only makes you human.

 

Everyone cries for their own reasons, and it doesn't matter how others see it.

 

Just my opinion...

[yeawutever]

Crying equals to human reaction so yes it's alright to show your feelings.

[Beautiful Nightmare]

Crying is natural, so I don't see how anyone could hold that against you. But if someone no longer wants to be with you, crying won't change that. It might make them feel bad or maybe even guilt them into staying, but would you really want to be with someone knowing they don't want to be with you? I know I wouldn't.

[catfeeder]

It's not crying, but rather manipulation, that makes me go cold. I'm normally moved to sympathy whenever I see someone cry, and it often causes me to well up also--but if it's used to affect a response from me that I don't want to give, I resent that. Big time.