:( i am so sad n confused

[mooddygal]

my close friend just broken up my his 2 year + gf 2 weeks ago.. i understand that i is very sad, so as i..

 

before he brokes up with his gf, i notice that i am i keep mentioned about him in front my friends. he is really a nice guy, he is so caring, understanding. BEing with him makes me so happy. since this, i keep asking whther i fall in love on him..

 

last weekend, me n his friends celebrate his b'day with him at a pub. although he looks very happy n enjoy most of the time, but i feel that he is not that happy from his inner heart.. my heart is so painful..

 

i drink quite a lot, not not drank yet, still conscious, i dont feel he was drank too, i think he was just high n acts drank... he hugs with another girl n flirt with that girl... so intimate they were.. on that moment, i feel really uneasy with that scen, i ask myself y i cant make myself drank.. y.. y.. y..

 

from that moment, i hate that girl.. i dislike her.. i really dont want them to get along.. i heard from his friend that he has gd impression on that girl too. this makes me so disappointed, sad, n heart broken.. but yesterday after we went dinner together, he told me that he wont start a relationship for the time being, and altough he was so close woth that girl the nite b4, he has no special feeling on her... y he wants to telling me these... i doubts wat he said... anyway, if he really likes her n he will feels happy, i will wish them .. i have nothing more to say..

 

y am i feel like that ? i dont know whether i really love him or i just dont want my buddy get along with that girl.. till now my heart still so painful....

[bleeder]

Hi Moddygal,

 

It is painful to be loving someone when your feelings are suppressed. Let him know and don't hold back for too long. If you cannot find the courage to speak to him, write him a card or an email.

 

I wish you all the best.

[SwingFox]

Hi mooddygal,

 

Love has unfortunately its funny ways. I of late find myself in a similar situation, in which I feel bad that my ex is with someone else. But I always try to think rational (which is hard, I know!). I try to think of why I broke up and the reasons for that.

 

I hope this helps you on your way, too. I am not sure if you really want to be back with him. The thought of what she is doing to and with your ex might bug you. I know it does for me. That's where I start to think of all the things that we didn't have in common.

 

Good luck on your healing process!

 

~ SwingFox ~