brandnew1 Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Just a little poll... sure this has been done before... This guy I am seeing is kind of shy and I am definitely NOT shy. I've slept with VERY few people but I am sexual uninhibited once I feel comfortable enough to sleep with someone. Anyway, I love talking dirty... when I asked this guy I've seeing what he thought he said he liked it but sometimes I sound like a porn star. I am not doing it on purpose... it's just a turn on to me! For example, I asked him what other girls would say if they wanted to get on top or something and he said they would just do it or not say anything. I, on the other hand, say something like, "I wanna ride your c---"... So, what do ya'll say --- turn on or turn off? Obviously I am comfortable with the way I am and I'm not going to change, I am just curious... and also I don't do it ALL the time.. Link to comment
ponyboy Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Lol wow that does sound porn starish! I think i would be pleasantly suprised to hear that from a girl im doin the do with lol! Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Dirty talking is THE BEST. I am a big fan, actually my current boy friend taught me to start doing it and now I'm better than him he is shy to talk the way I want sometimes. Oh and the sentence you said I say that and other stuff. Link to comment
GummyBear Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Its ok to do it all the time! Tell them what you wanna feel, what you wanna do. Use dirty words, or don't. Just don't use medical terms or baby terms either. "I want your wee wee in my hoo hoo" yeah no. "I can't wait to feel your pen*s in my v*gina." no, not that either. "I can't wait to feel your smooth ___ up against my ___" use good adjectives. and urgency in one's voice works too. i think dirty talk is such a hard subject to talk about because it is private and its different for everyone @ different points in a relationship. I was with someone who the first few months, he was nervous and shaky and would use technical terms. I would just throw out the naughty words and slowly, he loosened up. I was with someone else and first night, he threw it out there and it was hot. Its different with everyone... start slow... "I can't wait to feel you inside me" or something isn't too dirty. if the other person makes a face like their freaked, stop and keep the pillow talk to a minimum then. Link to comment
musicguy Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 I like talking dirty and dirty talk, gets me all hot and bothered Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 LOL. Reminds me of when I began getting intimate with my bf. And I used the p (kitty) word. He laughed! I was trying to sound sexy. I guess he just wasn't used to hearing it. Now he likes it. And I can see he gets really turned on if I whisper things I want him to do or what he is doing to me at that moment. I think there's nothing wrong with taking a lesson or 2 from porn stars when it comes to dirty talk. As long as you're not faking like them and don't sound TOO much like them. Mix it up with some of the porn star talk with your own. If he's not ready for the dirty talk maybe just keep it to loud moaning and other less "dirty" sounding things till he's more comfy. Link to comment
Keyman Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 My preference is to not have the dirty talking. If anything, it puts me off. If a girl says, "Kiss me, kiss me", or "Oh that feels so good," there there isn't a problem. But for me, once swearing comes into it... "F*** me your stud," "F*** me harder" or "Shove that c*** into me hard", as examples, it just seems to put me off my game. I guess it comes down to the individual. I also think that if sex with my SO is to stay at an Intimate and connected level, it can't sound like a porn movie. Oh, and I must say, that annoys me in a porn movie too. Shut up and just moan... it's the moaning that does it for me... Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 My preference is to not have the dirty talking. If anything, it puts me off. If a girl says, "Kiss me, kiss me", or "Oh that feels so good," there there isn't a problem. But for me, once swearing comes into it... "F*** me your stud," "F*** me harder" or "Shove that c*** into me hard", as examples, it just seems to put me off my game. I guess it comes down to the individual. I also think that if sex with my SO is to stay at an Intimate and connected level, it can't sound like a porn movie. Oh, and I must say, that annoys me in a porn movie too. Shut up and just moan... it's the moaning that does it for me... Oh yea.. Gotta agree with you about toning down swear words. I don't mind stuff like and D... But I'm sure some guys would love the cursing haha. Link to comment
doyathink Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 My ex would have laughed himself out of bed if I would of said anything. He was the total silent type. My new guy on the other hand is a talker lol. I love it. Yum!! Link to comment
hk87 Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 I love it when my guy tells me what he wants to do with me. It's so hot! I don't agree with swearing though. I find it quite insulting. hk87 Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 definitely talk like that. it's hot. Link to comment
Kantriakhor Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 I dislike swearing and dirty talk. Big turn-off. Link to comment
quirky Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 maybe you should start with "softer" dirty talk when it comes to him, since he's shy. It has a lot to do with trust/communication in a couple. When I first started dating my guy, he wouldn't talk dirty, in general wasn't adventurous. Now after a bit of encouragement I can't believe the filth that comes out of his mouth! lol Link to comment
glegend Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Its different strokes for different folks. Link to comment
1MoreChance Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 lol I think it's sexy! if you are being spontanious and are comfortable that way, I definitelly think it would be a huge turn on. personally I am the same. once I get comfortable with the relationship. I won't say something like that the first time we sleep together though lol. so unless it's an issue for him, where's the harm. Link to comment
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