alexrox Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 I don't have the best luck dating, and it's been a while since I've really done it. I dated someone a few weeks back and it didn't work out so I just need some help with this so I don't make the same mistakes. I just met this new girl recently and I've been out with her once already on Sunday evening (today is Tuesday). I was wondering if you experts out there could give me some tips on how to proceed further with this. How long should I wait to call/text/email her? how long should I wait to ask her out again? I didn't kiss her on the first date because I felt as if it would be too soon, but if things go well on the second date, a kiss at the end of the night would be acceptable, right? If I could get answers to these questions, and maybe thrown in a few "do's" when starting to date someone new, I'd appreciate it! Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 call her today, you have already waited 2 days. don't wait any longer. a kiss on the 2nd date is fine, if she is receptive. you don't need to wait until the end of the night Link to comment
ellandroader Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 Don't play into the calling rules. If you want to talk to her, just call! I say next day is reasonable enough. As for kissing her, a peck on the cheek won't harm on the second date. And also, a few "do's". I can think of one - go on dates which are interactive, less pressured etc. Go bowling or mini golfing....sometimes a movie or dinner may be a little intimidating whereas if you are having fun, you can both relax more and not be analysing what to say. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 yeah, i don't do the calling rules. if i'm feeling a girl, i hit her up the next day after. life is too short to wait. just don't be crazy eager. see if she is available thursday or friday. Link to comment
alexrox Posted March 10, 2009 Author Share Posted March 10, 2009 Ok awesome. I don't generally like to do those "calling rules" either but everybody I know has always said not to call the next day so you don't sound too eager. Sounds good though, I'll give a call tonight and see if she's free this weekend. Thanks all! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 i've called girls i was into the next day and it has never bitten me in the butt. Link to comment
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