tigereyes12 Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 a huge turn off for guys during oral sex? Can it be a turn on? Also, for the guys (or girls from experience) what do you most enjoy about oral sex? What will drive you crazy and/or get you off better than anything else? Link to comment
hear_her_roar Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 I can't speak for all guys, but the ones I've been intimate with seem to just accept gagging as something that sometimes happens. At the worst they've felt bad about it and wanted to stop, at the best it was a bit of an ego boost. Note that those are the guys I've been intimate with; I dated one who seemed to allude to him wanting to make me gag. He was a bit of a dud though, so I didn't end up doing much with him. I enjoy giving my man oral, just because I like giving him pleasure. He doesn't expect or even ask me to, but I feel as if it's something I'm good at. As for getting it, I only like it if the guy seems fairly interested in doing it for me. If he seems to be enjoying pleasing me, then I love it... but if he doesn't, I can tell, and it just feels weird. I don't know, that's just how I am, haha. Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 Whever i start hearing gagging in pornos its like the quickest turn off Link to comment
Sparchitecht Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 I've always been under the assumption that it's a turn-on... not gonna' be able to render any concrete evidence, tho. Logic tells me, more likely, it's going to differ from one to the next depending on how they interpret gagging and whether or not they associate it primarily with gratification or concern for your/her well-being, etc. Link to comment
mechie22 Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 You can avoid gagging its pretty easy once you get the hang of it. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 You can avoid gagging its pretty easy once you get the hang of it. I think it is BS. How can you avoid gagging? it happens whenever something goes that deep in your mouth. Seems like some people can but I am pretty sure it will always happen to me! Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 I think it is BS. How can you avoid gagging? it happens whenever something goes that deep in your mouth. Seems like some people can but I am pretty sure it will always happen to me! your breathing has a lot to do with it Link to comment
EQD Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 breathing and relaxation. and as i am told, when you last ate is a factor in gagging. Link to comment
mechie22 Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 If you dont think about it and take your time it gets easier to let it go farther w/o gagging. Link to comment
Unknown1607307972 Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 I have a horribley sensitive gag reflex but my boyfriend seems to accept it, I can't help it and with time it'll be easier to control. Link to comment
Sparchitecht Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 I think it is BS. How can you avoid gagging? it happens whenever something goes that deep in your mouth. Seems like some people can but I am pretty sure it will always happen to me! Anyone who's ever learned to put in contact lenses should get this concept. At first it's impossible to stop your brain from giving your eyelids the "emergency" signal to snap shut, but within time you develop new control over reflexes. The "gag" syndrome is no different, from a physical perspective. Link to comment
jengh Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 If you're really having issues with gagging, they sell gel that will numb your throat and thus reduce your gag reflex. From what I've experienced, when I gag a bit, it's not a turn off--they seem to enjoy it because it means I'm going "deep" Link to comment
tigereyes12 Posted March 12, 2009 Author Share Posted March 12, 2009 Anyone who's ever learned to put in contact lenses should get this concept. At first it's impossible to stop your brain from giving your eyelids the "emergency" signal to snap shut, but within time you develop new control over reflexes. The "gag" syndrome is no different, from a physical perspective. I think this is most likely true, though perhaps a little more extreme. I'm trying to train myself! But in the meantime, I worry he hates it. Link to comment
epsilon2x Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 a huge turn off for guys during oral sex? Can it be a turn on? Also, for the guys (or girls from experience) what do you most enjoy about oral sex? What will drive you crazy and/or get you off better than anything else? If a girl gagged while she gave me head... A. It'd boost my ego B. It'd make me think she hasn't sucked off that many guys and she's not used to it. Which would also make me happier. Link to comment
EQD Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 i wouldnt rely on option B too much^ Link to comment
tinydancer81 Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 okaaaaaaaaaaay.....so from i gather gagging is good.....ok...lol Link to comment
1MoreChance Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 a huge turn off for guys during oral sex? Can it be a turn on? Also, for the guys (or girls from experience) what do you most enjoy about oral sex? What will drive you crazy and/or get you off better than anything else? lol how is gagging a turn ON??? Link to comment
1MoreChance Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 If a girl gagged while she gave me head... A. It'd boost my ego B. It'd make me think she hasn't sucked off that many guys and she's not used to it. Which would also make me happier. It boots your ego if she gags? Gagging is uncomfortable and feels rather disgusting so the fact that it would turn you on to see your partner going through that, to me, is sick. the fact that you are happy she hasn't been with many guys clears it up though. you are insecure and need an ego boost. really, what does her past partners matter to you if she was consenting and happy to be with them? Link to comment
1MoreChance Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 you can pleasure your partner without putting yourself through so much discomfort. There are other ways to give oral pleasure to a man technique wise, than to deep throat. Link to comment
jstaman Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 I know it happens..Sometimes she tries to go a bit farther than she did before and gags a little. I let it go because 1. she has my penis in her mouth and it feels good. and 2. she has my penis in her mouth and it feels good. But forceful gagging, I have been with girls who actually got off on forcing my member down their throat till they gagged. they loved it. I did not get it but what ever (see 1&2 From above). The sound is not attractive and yes having puke on your pecker is definitely a turn off (never let a completely smashed girl do the deed fellas). I guess if you need an ego boost so bad that hearing your GF gag does it for ya..Kudos!?!? Me personally I get my ego boost from looking into her eyes when we are having sex and I see the pure enjoyment she is getting from what I am doing. Just my opinion and 2Cents Link to comment
1MoreChance Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 a huge turn off for guys during oral sex? Can it be a turn on? Also, for the guys (or girls from experience) what do you most enjoy about oral sex? What will drive you crazy and/or get you off better than anything else? how old are you??? Link to comment
1MoreChance Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 I think it is BS. How can you avoid gagging? it happens whenever something goes that deep in your mouth. Seems like some people can but I am pretty sure it will always happen to me! well then stop sticking it in so deep! lol Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 I have no gag reflex. .... anywaysss..boyfriend loves it..all that matters..but alas, he does get turned on when I pretend to gag..? so..to each it's own, I suppose. Link to comment
epsilon2x Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 It boots your ego if she gags? Gagging is uncomfortable and feels rather disgusting so the fact that it would turn you on to see your partner going through that, to me, is sick. the fact that you are happy she hasn't been with many guys clears it up though. you are insecure and need an ego boost. really, what does her past partners matter to you if she was consenting and happy to be with them? Wow, it was a joke/sarcasm. What makes you gag? Something that's long and goes to the back of the throat. What are guys proud of? Their penises. "hey man, this girl was s'n me off the other day and then she started gaggin, it was hilarious." Have a sense of humor, obviously this thread wasn't a serious one. Pshh. calling me insecure, my sn isn't the one thats "onemorechance". Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 a huge turn off for guys during oral sex? Can it be a turn on? Also, for the guys (or girls from experience) what do you most enjoy about oral sex? What will drive you crazy and/or get you off better than anything else? I'm not sure what my bf thinks of it. I try to hide it or make it unnoticable if I almost gag though haha. I think it may kill the mood. But I know of some guys who like it. I think it's some sort of power thing though (not in a very healthy way I assume). I enjoy oral sex most when I'm in "control" I guess and teasing the guy making him beg for more. Haha. Link to comment
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