timetogrow Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 So tonight one of my colleagues and his girlfriend introduced me a girl, who works as a cosmetic sales girl in a shopping mall. They showed me her pictures on the cell phone and i found her to be cute and pretty. After i left them my colleague called me up saying that they had talked to the girl and she would like to get to know me. They had taken my pictures and shown them to her previously. So they would like to arrange a time for us to meet up in a few days or maybe this weekend. My colleague and his girlfriend will be with us. So what should i do or say after i meet the girl, i mean i am a bit shy and not that social. What kind of topics will be better to bring up? Do i need to get myself prepared what to do or say before we meet up or just let it flow naturally? What do you guys normally do when you start your first date? I just have no clues what to say or do. Can anyone here please give me some suggestions and help? thank you so much. Link to comment
Seymore Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 Talk about hobbies and work. I get anxiety when meeting people and that pretty much branches out into something you know a thing or two about. The conversation segues itself, basically. Start off by talking about cosmetics and some of the customers she has to deal with and how she feels about it. Or maybe have her tell a crazy story about her customers - like did she ever have anyone come in who had to try out everything in the store. Link to comment
Radίaηce Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 i don't have any advice, i just wanted to comment and say "how cute!?" I think it's great idea to swap pics via cell phones. Great way to meet potential lovers is through friends. Link to comment
timetogrow Posted March 10, 2009 Author Share Posted March 10, 2009 i don't have any advice' date=' i just wanted to comment and say "how cute!?" I think it's great idea to swap pics via cell phones. Great way to meet potential lovers is through friends.[/quote'] My friend told me that she is small, not very tall. round face. I am looking forward to meeting her. thanks for the reply. BTW, what do you think of cosmetic sales girl? thanks Link to comment
timetogrow Posted March 10, 2009 Author Share Posted March 10, 2009 Talk about hobbies and work. I get anxiety when meeting people and that pretty much branches out into something you know a thing or two about. The conversation segues itself, basically. Start off by talking about cosmetics and some of the customers she has to deal with and how she feels about it. Or maybe have her tell a crazy story about her customers - like did she ever have anyone come in who had to try out everything in the store. ok thanks. I think i will just have some casual chat with her about her work and ask about cosmetic. after some chat may i ask her cell phone number then? do you think it will be too fast to act this? thanks Link to comment
Seymore Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 If things go well, at the end of the meeting I'd say "I had a good time and it was nice meeting you. I'd like to talk some more soon." Check her response, then ask if it would be ok to exchange numbers. I wish I thought like this WHILE I was on a date. I freak out and don't know what to say. Anxiety's a * * * * * . Link to comment
timetogrow Posted March 10, 2009 Author Share Posted March 10, 2009 If things go well, at the end of the meeting I'd say "I had a good time and it was nice meeting you. I'd like to talk some more soon." Check her response, then ask if it would be ok to exchange numbers. I wish I thought like this WHILE I was on a date. I freak out and don't know what to say. Anxiety's a * * * * * . haha. okay. I will keep you updated on it. thanks. Link to comment
dreamwarrior Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 Just be yourself...you will be fine...nothing wrong with cosmetic sales...hey it's a job! Let us know how things go! Link to comment
timetogrow Posted March 10, 2009 Author Share Posted March 10, 2009 Just be yourself...you will be fine...nothing wrong with cosmetic sales...hey it's a job! Let us know how things go! sure, i will definitely come back and update you guys. Well, Don't get me wrong, I am not saying i am looking for a girlfriend with power job. i know there is nothing wrong with cosmetic sales. I just wanted to get some views from you guys what your thoughts are for cosmetic sales girls. My friend told me that her personality is nice and it matters to me more than anything. thanks. Link to comment
Radίaηce Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 My friend told me that she is small, not very tall. round face. I am looking forward to meeting her. thanks for the reply. BTW, what do you think of cosmetic sales girl? thanks She sounds like me! She's gotta be cute... Anyway...Cosmetic Sales girl huh? Sounds like she takes care of herself then. They (usually) only hire the pretty ones to do that kind of work. Let us know how it went! Be energetic...energetic peaople are always fun, unless ur not an energetic person, DISREGARD. Link to comment
timetogrow Posted March 10, 2009 Author Share Posted March 10, 2009 She sounds like me! She's gotta be cute... Anyway...Cosmetic Sales girl huh? Sounds like she takes care of herself then. They (usually) only hire the pretty ones to do that kind of work. Let us know how it went! Be energetic...energetic peaople are always fun' date=' unless ur not an energetic person, DISREGARD.[/quote'] lol. good. As my friend told me last night she is not tall and quite little in shape. Her face is quite cute being kind of round. Just like my face, mine also being round. LOL. My friend told me that she is still studying cosmetic or something like that so i guess she is much younger than me. I will surely come back and let you guys know what's going on between us. Thank you so much for being there listening to my story. LOL. I am looking forward to receiving a call from my friends to see how they are going on with the arrangement. thanks. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 first off say hi and introduce yourself. talk about what you guys are going to do for the evening/day. don't sit there and twiddle your thumbs. speak up about school, work, whatever. Link to comment
timetogrow Posted March 21, 2009 Author Share Posted March 21, 2009 So i am going to meet this girl tomorrow. feeling a bit excited and anxious now. will let you know what the outcome is later. thank you all. Link to comment
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