xtiarax Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Well we broke up again after about a month or more, we were together for over 6 months and i was on here when we broke up and thought i had got over him but it looked as though i hadnt as he came back to me and i went back to him again. We had an argument which i started and i acted really childish that day, he told me that everything was fine and that he wasnt mad and that he wasnt pissed off at me. I then tried contacting and apologising he ignored me for ages and never even broke up with me this time. His mate then wanted to go out with me and i told my ex that i would never date one of his mates, his mate told me that he had a girlfriend and that he didnt dump me coz of me. His girlfriend then got involved and started telling me to stop messaging him and that she was his girlfriend, but the thing was i never actually messaged him like she was saying, he then deleted me off facebook and then waited a week and the blocked me off there too, at this time i am seeing his mate and he has told his mate things about me, but his mate said he would not judge me based on what he says about me, he has not started telling his girlfriend things about me and him and talking about me as if i meant nothing to him, but he came back to me. So now i do not know what to do. i mean his mate lives like a few doors down from him and that means maybe we will dump into each other, and i do not know why not he has got rid of me off there, maybe she made him get rid of me maybe he just wanted to but i dont know what to do ,he knows i love him and he is chosing this girl over me, i pushed him to her i know that, i have not contacted him for a week, so now i do not know what to do as i love him so much and he has now blocked and deleted me off facebook when i havent done anything and took so long to do it, why couldnt he have just done it then when we broke up, as soon as she knew who i was, he has now got rid of me. I dont know wat to do now, i messed things up, and do you think that the fact that i am seeing his mate, it is pushing him further away from me? Link to comment
nem69 Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Coming from a guy then it sure doesn't help you are dating one of his mates. Link to comment
quirky Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 This sounds so confusing! How about not dating anyone? If your ex ever realises he misses you, that's his issue and it will only be achieved if you have no contact. Do NOT date his mate, this will not make you look classy, there's plenty of other guys out there. Though I would advise you for a while, like a couple of months tops, to forget all that boy trouble and just do your thing Link to comment
xtiarax Posted March 9, 2009 Author Share Posted March 9, 2009 But the mate of his asked him if he minded him dating me and he gave him my name and then said that my ex was okay about it, but ever since i have been seeing and talking to his mate he has deleted me off facebook and he has now blocked me and this girl is being rude that he is seeing and i do not know wat he has been saying to her, she is already calling him her boyfriend and they havent been going out for that long, and he doesnt like it when you do that, when it is just at the beginning. I dont know i mean he gave his mate my name and he told him that it was okay to date me and that he wasnt seeing me anymore and that he didnt mind! But i just do not know why he now has deleted me and blocked me and we have been broken up for 2 months and he never deleted me and i sent him long messages and told him that he was gonna delete me, but he waited all this time and then done it, when i suddenly was going out with his mate and he could see everything that we had said to each other on there. So im not sure if i shud continue seeing thee mate, coz he did say that it was okay! Link to comment
xtiarax Posted March 9, 2009 Author Share Posted March 9, 2009 Im seeing his mate in about an hour what shud i do, shud i continue to see him or not, and is that pushing him further away when he actually said that it was okay to see his mate, and he has a girlfriend so he wouldnt mind would he? Link to comment
xtiarax Posted March 9, 2009 Author Share Posted March 9, 2009 I love him so much and this is all my fault i have pushed him to this other girl and now he has no contact with me at all and now i am stuck with this mate and im not sure wat to do, coz i do like him but it isnt the same as it was with my ex and i do not know what i am meant to do, i mean he has now deleted and blocked me off facebook and the first time we broke up he never did that he left me on there, but then i guess i never went out with his mate and if he was dating someone then she didnt know who i was! I miss him so much and today i have to go past his house, but he said that it was okay for me and his mate to date each other, he said that he didnt mind, but since he has seen that me and him are talking on facebook and i am telling his mate i miss him, he has now blocked me so he cant see any of that! So im not sure if he is bothered about it or if he just hates me Link to comment
nem69 Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 He does seem a bit airy fairy about the whole relationship. Think you both need to try NC Link to comment
xtiarax Posted March 9, 2009 Author Share Posted March 9, 2009 Well he has i have just sent him a letter saying goodbye and then i have not contacted him since last tuesday and he then blocked me when me and his mate are seeing each other! Link to comment
nem69 Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 You mean when you are with his mate (the one your dating) he ignores you? If so he may be feeling a little hurt, is a little bit childish though (I can talk!). Its giving you the cold shoulder hoping you will feel guilty. Link to comment
xtiarax Posted March 9, 2009 Author Share Posted March 9, 2009 No he has not contacted me for ages, but he has never ever deleted me, he deleted me last week and then waited a week and then as soon as i was posting comments on his mates page he blocked me, and he has never done that before, and his mate said that he was meeting up with his mate today and that he would see me at 3.30 and now he has texted me saying he will be a bit late and it is obvious that he is with my ex and that he knows i am seeing him and he is making him late. He hasnt contacted me since the break up but he has never got rid of me and blocked me on facebook, it could be partly coz of hos girlfriend, but it seems a little odd that he can see that i am writing i miss you to his mate on his wall and then he blocks me a week later, i mean if he wanted to cut me off altogether he would of done that straight away when me and him broke up but he never he waited two months and then deleted me and blocked me so that he cant see whats going on with his mate and i ., Link to comment
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