123abc Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Hey just wanting some advise on how you would takel this situation. About 2 years ago i met someone who was fantasic, ending up being friends talking every day emails or txt, Slept with him twise, got stood up from him a few to many times and i had had enough. So i stoped talking to him. 6 months latter he sends me a txt and im a little hostyl because of the past 6 months but actully missed being his friend. A few months latter i needed a new flatmate and he moved in, We have grown closer and i started to fall for him in a different light. We are two very seprate people - and for this i know for a fact it would never work - but that doenst stop me likeing him. He has been single most of the time i have lived him and we acted a little coupply at times - but nothing ever happened. LAst month he started going out with this very cool chick who is perfect for him and im genuinely happy for him beacuse i want him to be happy and he really is. Last week one of my friends told him i liked him and now he stoped talking to me - unless its small talk - coz well we do live together.... He doesnt know that i my friend told him this. Now im not quite sure how to talk to him about it - with out losing a good friend with out lying and with out him talking to me... Im not very good at talking about how i feel either which still makes it hard Link to comment
Woof Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Wow this isnt a simple situation but u can work it out! Best will be just being honest with him. Explain how u r genuinely happy for him. I personally think you still like him becaus eyou may have some leftover feelings for him. I mean, even you realise that you both wont work. Just be honest, and if he is a genuine guy, he will understand Link to comment
Blue Streak Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 That is tough. Looking at the title, it is hard to perceive the truth. Link to comment
cruzer Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 You could just be honest and tell him what u told us. You like him, but know it would never work, and you really happy for him because this new girl makes him happy. Also you hope u guys can continue to be friends and not let that get in the way. Will probably be hard to say face to face, but just think of the advantages if u do, u guys can be friends, and flat mates without being to awkward, can talk again, and u have nothing to hide anymore. Link to comment
123abc Posted March 10, 2009 Author Share Posted March 10, 2009 Youch so i told him new.. Asked he wanted to talk about - he said why would he want to do that I said coz i thought you might care a lil he said we i see it as a finished topic thats it over so i asked why i felt like he hated me then - considering we used to be close and he said when have i been home - and blocked me Link to comment
cruzer Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 and he said when have i been home - and blocked me Im confused about this line. was he complaining ur never home, or saying ur never home so u guys cant do stuff or something? blocked you? u tell him over internet or something? there is not much for him to say if he does not feel the same except tell u what is going on in his head. like does that make him feel weird towards u or he dont really care Link to comment
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