Second "Date"

[The_Wanderer]

I talked to this chick in my Irish history class for the first time in February. I kind of forgot about her, then noticed again how gorgeous she was one day, and then asked her to coffee. She accepts, we go, have a good time, talk for like two hours afterward in the park. Exchange numbers.

 

This was Friday. I see her, automatically, in class tomorrow. When is a good time to ask her to something else (ie, ~ how many days after Friday is in good taste to wait)? For two college kids who have only had contact twice (the second time albeit for two hours...is that even a date?) what are some good ideas for things to do?

 

Thanks for the help as I finally figure out this dating thing for the first time. This site is the best!

[asthesparrow]

Just talk to her when you see her in the next class. Did it seem as if she wanted to go out with you again? Cause if she did I'm sure she'd love if you mentioned hanging out again..

[123abc]

if she spent 2 hours with you then she wants to spend more time with ya

if ya dont ask you dont get

[cruzer]

Just be yourself, dont wait a specific time, dont wait 3 days because others say wait 3 days. If you feel ready, or u would like to go out today, ask her.

[jennamajig]

Frankly if you want another date, just go ahead and ask. I never understood why guys felt the need to wait three days, etc. I think often enough, two people know by the end of the first "date" whether or not they'd like a second one, so why wait if it went well? I recently went out with a guy that asked me out on the second date at the end of the first. I admired his straight forward attitude.

 

So if you're ready - go for it. Doesn't sound like this gal will turn you down