jengh Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Just reading through here, thinking about one-night-stands and curious as to who has partaken in these or if given the opportunity, would. Spill. I'll keep the poll anonymous for all of you shy folk =) Also curious as to HOW MANY you've had. Please no judging others on their values! Thanks! Edit to add: My definition of a one night stand is ONE night, not multiple hookups with said person. Link to comment
hers Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 I've hooked up with guys just once to never see them again, but i have never gone somewhere and picked up a stranger. Does that mean I've had one? Link to comment
jengh Posted March 9, 2009 Author Share Posted March 9, 2009 Yes, lovely, that counts Link to comment
jengh Posted March 9, 2009 Author Share Posted March 9, 2009 I'm in college. It happens. Indeed it does Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Funny I just watched Knocked up today and was thinking about this. Never had one, I highly doubt I would. Only time I think it could happen is if I got reallllly drunk. Kissed a whole lot of guys whose names, or faces I can't remember though. One night stands just aren't my thing. I'd rather go without sex I think. Oh.. if a one night stand does include receiving "manual stimulation" then thinking back YES, I've had one.. Badbad idea since I was getting over break up and ended up in tears in the middle or an O. Akward. Link to comment
Maverick32x Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 way... way... way too many..... I don't know if they all could be considered "one night stands" since many became booty calls at a later point in time.. but I've been a real jerk in my days..... atleast the way I see it now...... I've changed a lot though (I think) and I've actually decided to take my time with relationships.. probably why I don't get involved in very many.... but ya, I felt terrible and guilty after each one... full of regret.... why I kept doing it? probably low self-esteem.. who knows.... .. also a little edit here I find it interesting that I recently (past couple years) have a way lower desire to have sex with a girl... I'd much rather makeout a bunch and cuddle up... I find sex boring and not very enjoyable after awhile... just seems like the same ole, same ole..... and to be honest, I mostly only do it with a girl when shes the one that clearly wants to do it more than me... I blame all those one-nights stand and meaningless hook ups for that! Link to comment
Isha Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Yes I have and I don't regret any of them. All but one were fantastically fun, the last was okay but kind of boring. I selected the 2-5 option. Link to comment
babysunshine Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 I just had my first one recently..... I was extremely drunk and don't really remember it. I am laying off the alcohol for a looooong time. Link to comment
tiredofvampires Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 I've always wondered...how "far" do you have to go to call it a "one night stand?" Does foreplay or "erotic play" count, or do you have to finish the deed completely? That would affect my vote... Link to comment
jengh Posted March 9, 2009 Author Share Posted March 9, 2009 I've always wondered...how "far" do you have to go to call it a "one night stand?" Does foreplay or "erotic play" count, or do you have to finish the deed completely? That would affect my vote... In my opinion, it's full-on sex. Link to comment
doyathink Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Thank you for making it anonymous. lol aHEM....I mean...I have NOTHING to hide! Link to comment
tiredofvampires Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 In my opinion, it's full-on sex. 'K, well then, I just went from a handful to zero. And never would... Link to comment
Orlander Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Yes, alcohol was usually involved. Though, I have had one nighters in the past when relationships were souring. I have regretted quite a few. Link to comment
shikashika Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Yes I have. I don't regret any of them... none of them were that dreadful. Most people I know have done so as well.. so I'm am surprised at the amount of "No i would never' responses. Link to comment
Blue Streak Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Never have yet probably would if nothing serious were at risk. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Nope never had nor will have. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 WOW, I always thought it was just me in this world not wanting one. Now I know I am not alone Link to comment
Blue Streak Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 WOW, I always thought it was just me in this world not wanting one. Now I know I am not alone Yea, that is not how it works among the masses. It's marketed quite well though. Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 I'm in college. It happens. not when I was in college Link to comment
heatspreader Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 I had 1, I didn't like it, and probably will never again. Link to comment
FortunateOne Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Nope... and don't plan to start any time soon. Link to comment
dr_styles Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 I don't like bars/pubs/clubs or any other alcohol obsessed place so I'm pretty sure I'll never end up in that situation (I know it can happen without the girl drinking but really, very low odds). Ideally, I wouldn't. I definitely am the sort of person who would only want to have sex with someone I cared about. As you can tell with my fancy italics though, I have to admit I might end up doing it if the girl was really wanting to because, well, the whole thing about being dateless, virgin, etc. (Just being realistic here ...) Link to comment
KG Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 When I was single, travelling around the U.S., it was the norm in the construction biz. Never stayed in one place too long, you followed the next building binge. But this was before Aids, STD"s, etc. And the construction ladies were OK with this arrangement. Link to comment
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