subliminal7 Posted March 8, 2009 Share Posted March 8, 2009 When having sex with my girlfriend i never am able to get to the point of ejaculation. Whether were having sex, or shes giving head or a hand job, it doesnt matter, i never am able to reach that point. We could go on for a couple hours, it doesnt matter. Anybody else have this same problem? Any suggestions? Link to comment
Mutley Posted March 8, 2009 Share Posted March 8, 2009 Are you taking any medications that might inhibit? Link to comment
subliminal7 Posted March 8, 2009 Author Share Posted March 8, 2009 well i smoke weed on occasion and im prescribed zoloft atm. but this was a problem before zoloft. If i masturbate i can ejaculate in 5 mins or less. Idk if that gives any more insight. Link to comment
Mutley Posted March 8, 2009 Share Posted March 8, 2009 How often do you ejaculate solitary before you are with her? Maybe make sure to take a break for a few days beforehand so you're more built up for the action. Link to comment
subliminal7 Posted March 8, 2009 Author Share Posted March 8, 2009 idk, not often. lately me and her have been doing things every 3 or so days. then i would go home on the days we messed around and masturbate cause i just want that "completed" feeling. haha Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 well i smoke weed on occasion and im prescribed zoloft atm. but this was a problem before zoloft. If i masturbate i can ejaculate in 5 mins or less. Idk if that gives any more insight. if you are doing it after smoking weed, that is probably where it's coming from. you can be very relaxed prolonging the session. also, you can be training yourself by masturbating too much. if you are doing it before having sex, this will prolong it too. Link to comment
EQD Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 have you gotten used to getting off a certain way? sounds like the zoloft would further inhibit the problem also. Link to comment
PsychGirly Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 Is the sex good? Are you attracted to her (sexually, emotionally, physically)? Are you doing all the work during sex, or does she also take charge? Link to comment
subliminal7 Posted March 9, 2009 Author Share Posted March 9, 2009 I don't ever smoke weed before we have sex, i never smoke weed before i go see her because she doesnt like the smell. During sex we switch off, i'll do most of the work for a bit then she'll hop on top and we'll continue. I love her to death, im attracted to her in every possible way. especially physically Link to comment
PsychGirly Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 I don't ever smoke weed before we have sex, i never smoke weed before i go see her because she doesnt like the smell. During sex we switch off, i'll do most of the work for a bit then she'll hop on top and we'll continue. I love her to death, im attracted to her in every possible way. especially physically Does the sex/oral feel good? Is your problem reaching climax? Do you ever feel you're close to orgasm, but don't ejaculate? I'm clueless on this one. Don't know much about medication, so can't say much about that. Link to comment
isoleaf Posted March 9, 2009 Share Posted March 9, 2009 When having sex with my girlfriend i never am able to get to the point of ejaculation. Whether were having sex, or shes giving head or a hand job, it doesnt matter, i never am able to reach that point. We could go on for a couple hours, it doesnt matter. Anybody else have this same problem? Any suggestions? i have the EXACT same problem... i tend to need up to 4-6 hours before i can cum the way i want. sometimes i can do it in 2. i've learned how to speed it up with a girl so it doesn't take as long (maybe 45 min), but this is no different than masturbating and the orgasm reached is similar in satisfaction level. i also have a lot of experience in this area as i've been this way since the day i started having sex. this was more than a decade ago. two questions to get things started... 1. are you circumsized? 2. do you have to wear condoms when having sex? more details upon receiving these answers... Link to comment
KG Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 OP, I am on antidepressants, which results in inorgasmia(sp), the inability to finish. It's common. Link to comment
isoleaf Posted March 10, 2009 Share Posted March 10, 2009 OP, I am on antidepressants, which results in inorgasmia(sp), the inability to finish. It's common. he said it was a problem before he started taking them though... i've never taken any antidepressants regularly and it's still a problem for me. from my understanding it's called DE - Delayed Ejaculation. i dunno for sure but i can tell you it's sure as hell an annoying thing to have to deal with so i feel the OP for sure... Link to comment
subliminal7 Posted March 11, 2009 Author Share Posted March 11, 2009 yes, i am circumsized and yes i do have to wear condoms during sex. i'm just am never able to reach the point where i think im going to climax. Link to comment
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