Co-worker trying to set me up with a teammate of hers

[Seymore]

A few years back, my co-worker said she had someone she'd like me to meet from her softball team, and thought we'd get along. I attended their next game, and this girl was unattractive in almost every way - what really did it for me was her excessive cursing. She was almost like "one of the guys", or butch, if you will. I thought to myself "That's what my co-worker thinks of me - that this girl is my type?!" I wound up interested in the girl's sister, who was also there, but she was engaged.

 

Fast-forward to today. I'm 2 months out of a 1.5-year relationship, and I feel I'm healing well, but haven't fully recovered. My co-worker calls me into her office and says "I have someone new on my team, and I think you guys would get along great". I rolled my eyes. She's 27, divorced and lives 26 miles away from me, not to mention she's still buddy-buddy with her ex-husband.

 

I don't have a good feeling about this. The divorce already, the fact that she's still friends with the ex-husband, the distance, not to mention the mismatch my co-worker set me up on before. I'm enjoying my single life. Leaving my place a mess, doing nothing in the evenings. What do you think - should I meet her?

[PetiteGirl]

Sounds like a handful of drama; obviously you're not comfortable with it. I would say "thanks, but no thanks!"

[annie24]

yeah, i think i would also pass!

[orangesoda]

yikes, pass.

[ghost69]

i would say pass no matter what. she isn't the greatest of match makers.

[Scorpion Fury]

I wouldn't. You have only been single two months, and you are enjoying it right now. Just keep enjoying it, and date someone new on your terms when the time is right and you feel like it

[Seymore]

Thanks guys. You all are echoing the thoughts in my mind. I appreciate the input

[Dubb]

I would go but with no expectations. If anything you expand your social circle.

[Shudder]

your co-worker is probably the worse matchmaker ever lol