I have to flex me pc muscle during masterbation or sex. normal?

[Funstuff]

Heya, im 18 years old, been masterbateing for god knows how long, and started having sex when i was about 14-15 ish.

 

Iv noticed one thing that iv talked to people and it differs.

 

i AUTOMATICCLY without thinking flex my PC muscle, whenever receiveing any sort of stimulation. I get annoying cause it takes forever to cum from a girl giving me a blowjob, but it feels better if i flex it.

 

I have absolutly no problem reaching orgasm during sex what soever, but i can go for an hour or 2 mins. But i can never cum from girls giving me head, and im scared im overuseing my PC muscle which to this day might be the reason for my erection problems.

 

anyone have a similar issue or know anything?

[ghost69]

do you just sit there and watch? does your mind wander to the vjayjay action? try that.

 

are the girls just terrible?

[WindowTo]

You can do exercises to learn to control it. Namely, masturbating while trying to relax the muscle.

[Funstuff]

aha no the girls are good, like im sweating and everything cause im holding that muscle its retardedd. ahah.

[lv22irl]

I feel like I do the same thing. I also could never cum from girls giving me a BJ... until recently with my GF. I found if we 69 I have a distraction so I dont think about it as much, and voila

[Funstuff]

Like i have came from Blowjobs, just takes a long time and almost as if i force it. Which isnt supposed to be right.

Handjobs i can come from but also take a long while.

 

Would not flexing that muscle help me ejaculate faster?

 

Now i mean if it was the other way around, long time to ejaculate during sex, and quick on blowjobs both parties would be happy