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Boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. I don't know whether to start no contact with him, however he wants to stay in contact and be friends/meet up etc. I don't know if this will work though, seeing as the break up is still recent and my feelings for him are obviously still there! Even after one day I'm finding it hard not to miss him and I really don't know what to do. I do want to stay in contact, but I know my feelings will most probably get in the way.

 

Anyway wanted to get that out there and see what anyone else thinks!

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If you *can't* stop contact, then that should be a little warning bell going off in your head that you are still to attached to have contact. People are usually a lot stronger than they give themselves credit for.

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I'm sorry to hear of your break-up. I think your answer is right in your original post. Right now, you need to do what is right for YOU. If being in contact with him is only going to cause you more hurt and confusion, then you should simply let him know that you're not ready to be friends, nor to be in regular contact. If that upsets him, too bad: he should know that he can't have his cake (break up with you) and eat it too (still have you in his life).

 

Take good care of yourself. You need to be a priority right now, not him.

 

YS

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Why aren't you strong enough? You make the decisions for yourself. Just do it. You will find that NC will be the common advice given on ENA, because its a tried and true method to healage without losing your self respect etc.

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