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I have read some of your posts/threads and you might just be venting but I highly doubt you could make the situation you were in sound worse or exaggerate. I think because you said you are forgiving and seem like a very nice person you feel bad for talking about anyones faults, let alone hers. You are realizing more and more each day about how undesireable your situation was, but it seems at home and comfortable to you so you might still long for it. I know it sounds insane to long for an unhealthy situation, but its human nature to not want to be taken out of our comfort zone, I think thats the biggest issue and why you are still holding on.

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Sometimes its totally true that they are better as friends, but as long as you are still emotionally attached to her it will be impossible to be just that. When you are emotionally ready and not expecting it someone great will come along, she on the other hand is just craving the physical attention she is now lacking due to the breakup. Just keep your chin up and you will always have your bad and good days. I am only 6 days in NC I am a mess for an hour or so then hysterically laughing the next. Its a painful and long process the longer and more damaging the relationship was.

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Right now is where you have to be the most selfish and stop caring about her, what shes doing, who shes doing it with and just focus totallyon yourself and your life. You have to get your own life back because you are used to bieng an us, which is why you are still focusing on her trying to find someone new.

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All I Ever Wanted Was to Love You
All I Ever Wanted Was to Love You

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