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My bf and I were getting intimate with each last night and for some reason I asked if he still had the porn DVD that we watched a little bit together about 8 or 9 months into our relationship. He then told he might still have it but can't remember what he did with it because he moved last year and had put it some where and couldn't remember. Well, I told him that he should try to find and put on. We ended up watching together. But, I actually found it funny and akward at the same time. But, we then got intimate with each really on watching about maybe 5 or 10 minutes into it and turned it off.

 

I really don't care for it at all really. I just so happen got in the mood of being with him and thought it was something him and I haven't really done in our sex life.. He doesn't watch porn in general because he says "he has no interest in watching when he has me." I know that he doesn't watch because I am around him all the time for the most part and which I do trust him a lot.

 

Is there couples who enjoy watching porn together? Does it make the sex I guess more intimate maybe?

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I watched it with my first boyfriend. It was good for quick & dirty sex, but I wouldn't have wanted to watch it with him if we were having a romantic night in.

 

The moment was really romantic I guess and it just all kinda happen all at once.

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The moment was really romantic I guess and it just all kinda happen all at once.

 

I think it's fine. Nothing to be embarrassed about. If you guys enjoy it on occasion and you think it brings you closer together, then what's the problem? If you're seeking validation that this is normal, then I think you can be assured that some people do a lot more freaky stuff than watch porn together.

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Haha how funny! I have been wanting to post this thread for a few days already but didn't.

 

Like your bf, my bf is one of the rare guys who doesn't care for porn nor masterbating alone. Me however, I am a bit intrigued by porn, though I don't care to masterbate either.

 

Ive been wondering if I should ask him to watch porn together. Specially since we have the big screen now lol. But at the same time I'm wondering if it will just be akward.

 

I don't care if we turn it off in the middle which will probably happen. But I'm worried that what if he likes the porn a bit too much once I introduce him to it. I see so many guys who get a bit addicted to it, and frankly I like things the way there are now. But that's another topic I guess..

 

Sorry for the rambling. My point is I want to but am afraid it will be akward or he may not like.

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We have only watched "Pirates" together, at a group thing with our friends, and that was simply because of the entertainment value (no sex followed). Personally, it doesn't get me, or him, off. He thinks it's weird and I think it's boring. Why watch porn when you can check out your SO while having sex with him/her? There are so many better forms of foreplay IMHO...no porn for me (unless it's for entertainment value, as mentioned).

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He tired to get me into it the first time by putting on and I never really showed interest in it at all. I really still don't care for it but was in the mood just to try it out again. It was really weird just cause I really don't remember what we were talking about but some how I ended up asking about it and so he went and looked for it and put it on. I think just try bringing it in a conversation or something to see what his feelings are towards it.

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We have only watched "Pirates" together, at a group thing with our friends, and that was simply because of the entertainment value (no sex followed). Personally, it doesn't get me, or him, off. He thinks it's weird and I think it's boring. Why watch porn when you can check out your SO while having sex with him/her? There are so many better forms of foreplay IMHO...no porn for me (unless it's for entertainment value, as mentioned).

 

I agree with you. That how I really see it as well. But, it was kind of a random thing and thought of at least try watching together. I would just rather see my bf in general without clothes on...

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Since no one else is replying.

 

Not that I am an expert or anything......no really I'm not! There are porn movies that are made for couples with the ladies in mind. They are more romantic and have a plot. Not just the pizza boy showing up with his dork sticking thru the cardboard box.

They just go a lot farther and a re more graphic than a sex scene in a R rated movie.

I think you girls would like them.

 

Couple of lucky guys you have...

 

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I've just watched pirates! Ha ha. I actually borrowed it from the boyfriend! I like porn but not addicted or anything. Mustering up the courage to watch with him but I've always got off alone before. I think it would be quite funny but I would feel bit awkward I think at first. We have a good sex life and it's growing each time (excuse the pun) ha

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I was just actually curious if other people who are dating actually watch them together. I know my bf watched porn before we met and started dating I knew he did watch a lot of though. I know that he has the one DVD that we happened to watch and he threw away the 2 magazines that he had. But, he just stopped watching porn in general because of how happy he was with me. But, I was just curious since I really never watched in sort of porn at all.

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I watch porn sometimes with my fiance... it certainly doesnt set the mood for romance.. but its good for some dirty sex! lol

 

if you enjoy it, then its all good. If it makes you uncomfortable... then avoid it next time.

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