how would you feel about this?

[majord23]

The fact that the OP hasn't posted again in this thread possibly isn't a good sign.

[Rabican]

probably sitting at home begging her to stop sleeping with him when they go out on date nights friday and saturday.

 

Hopefully he worked it out, but Im guessing hes still doormattin' it since there hasnt been an 'I manned up and dumped her' post.

[r3ni]

Update is that I found out she kissed him again. I was ready to walk, she asked me to stay and said she would do what it takes. Then she called him and told him she would never talk to him again. She quit her job the next morning because they work together. And she signed up for therapy. Two days later she dumped me. I thought we finally really had a chance to get past this, instead it's so much * * * * ing worse because I can see all that could of been if she would of just finally given us a chance.

[Casey13]

Let this be a lesson well learned not to be so naive and forgiving for such behavior again. Move on to new and better things but smarter this time learning from this

[pumpkinmoon]

Not acceptable. She realised she couldn't cheat on you again? Well she did cheat on you again when she kissed him. If she is serious about wanting to be with you, she needs to cut this man out of her life.

[pumpkinmoon]

Update is that I found out she kissed him again. I was ready to walk, she asked me to stay and said she would do what it takes. Then she called him and told him she would never talk to him again. She quit her job the next morning because they work together. And she signed up for therapy. Two days later she dumped me. I thought we finally really had a chance to get past this, instead it's so much * * * * ing worse because I can see all that could of been if she would of just finally given us a chance.

 

Posted my last post without reading this. I really don't think any good would have come from staying with her. From what you posted, it didn't sound like you would have ever broken up with her so she took the decision out of your hands and did it, I think this is a blessing in disguise.

[abouttime]

She did you a favor. But in truth she will be back. They were ex for a reason. They will be ex again. The question is, what will you do when she comes back again. Its gonna happen. Think about it.

[Rabican]

You are better off without her dude. A chick like that will just ruin your self confidence, your self worth etc.