Borashi Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 My scenario is simple. I pick out the girls who either have b/f's or are crazy in the head. I have no sense when it comes to reading if a girl is digging me or not, I just kind of go with the flow. Any tips on finding the "right" ones to date?
Seymore Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I'm the same way, they're either liars or royally screwed up. I think people would say go to a place where types like that hang out (church? I dunno).
gidget1 Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I am the same way. I've had two long term relationships and both of the men were the exact same person in every way. Controlling, passive aggresive, emotionally abusive, drug addicts... I didn't know this before I dated them of course, but it's as if I attract the drug addicts who just want to use me and take advantage of me. I don't know why! I come accross as a pretty sweet, genuine person, but I attract only the opposite guys. Maybe its the whole opposites attract thing? I guess it just takes a few times to meet the right person!
emma34 Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 random pickings at bars or other 'out' places, pretty much leave it up to chance. try meeting someone through a friend...if they are friends with YOUR friend, then clearly they are a) normal, and b) not taken (well ur friend would tell u if they were im sure).
waveseer Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I actually think I do okay choosing men to date, but the two I married, well, that's a whole nuther story.
AnotherBrokenDoll Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 Haha i have the opposite problem. Im attracted to the decent nice ones. The only ones who are attracted to me, are messed up or complete jerks.
DaBladeRoden Posted February 8, 2009 Posted February 8, 2009 I'm often told that i keep going after the wrong women
Kinetics Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Not sure if it's the 'wrong' people, but I have had some tendencies dating a girl who has feelings for another guy or still had feelings for her ex. And it's not even intentional sometimes! I thought, finally a decent girl...and then she'd suddenly drop the bomb, "uhm...I also like another guy and I can't choose." and I'd be like, "oh great, this again!!!" I seem to have a strange magnet for these type of women...? I need to demagnetize.
madmarten Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Not sure if it's the 'wrong' people, but I have had some tendencies dating a girl who has feelings for another guy or still had feelings for her ex. And it's not even intentional sometimes! I thought, finally a decent girl...and then she'd suddenly drop the bomb, "uhm...I also like another guy and I can't choose." and I'd be like, "oh great, this again!!!" I seem to have a strange magnet for these type of women...? I need to demagnetize. No way to easily demagnetize, there is something about them attracts the other guys. You just have try harder.
Kinetics Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 No way to easily demagnetize, there is something about them attracts the other guys. You just have try harder. Haha maybe. But I don't want to associate with these type of women, they're trouble. I've been looking for a girl with a clearer mind, not someone who is trying to get over her own problems.
ghost69 Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 just talk to the next girl that comes along. 50/50 chance they have a bf.
D_Lish Posted February 9, 2009 Posted February 9, 2009 Liars and cheats. I don't intentionally get involved with this type, just they prove to be them. Guess you don't have to remain with them though. Red flags usually fly early on. Only we often find ourselves making excuses for their behaviour, rather than get rid.
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