CanadaGuy111 Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Hello, I am not sure why I am attracted towards transexuals. I am straight guy, and I never had or wanted to have sex with men but I find myself always fantasying over Transexuals? Why is that ? Is it something to do with hormones? Can anybody help? Does anyone else experience this?
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Do you like the way they look? Or just the fact that they used to be a man?
CanadaGuy111 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Posted February 6, 2009 I would have to say it is more about the way they look.
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 I would have to say it is more about the way they look. Is it the masculine features? What draws you to them exactly? Maybe you just like the stronger features and they don't, neccessarily, have to be transsexuals.
CanadaGuy111 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Posted February 6, 2009 It has nothing to do with the masculine features other then the one obvious one. In fact the more they look like a girl the more it turns me on.
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 It has nothing to do with the masculine features other then the one obvious one. In fact the more they look like a girl the more it turns me on. Perhaps you are turned on by women with penises? Some people are. I'd analyze exactly what is different about transexuals specifically that attract you to them.
IphigeniaSaysHi Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Just like with any 'fetish'- people are sometimes attracted to things we might, even ourselves, consider weird. Do you think you would ever want to be with one in real life, or is this a mainly superficial fantasy?
CanadaGuy111 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Posted February 6, 2009 This is where I am not sure. I fantasy about it but I am not so sure If I could go through with it in real life. I think maybe if i was drunk and met one.
IphigeniaSaysHi Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 I think there is often a problem in classifying people's sexuality. You have an affinity for transsexuals. Maybe serious, maybe fantasy... it doesn't really matter. It's ok to be attracted to all sorts of legal things lol. How long have you been into transsexuals? Have you ever met one?
CanadaGuy111 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Posted February 6, 2009 I have been into it for about a year now id say. I have only met one that I know of.
IphigeniaSaysHi Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 It could honestly be a phase. That isn't a very long time, and our attractions change a great deal over our lifetime. Unless you feel extremely ashamed of this attraction, I wouldn't worry about it. To each his own. But I did see a transsexual on my way to work today. She was having her car towed out of the street. Looked pretty snappy. lol
CanadaGuy111 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Posted February 6, 2009 I do not really think its a phase, a year might be kinda of an underestimate, I used to be curious about it then kinda forgot about it until towards the end of summer 07. I feel a bit ashamed, I wouldn't like be to know about it but that doesn't really stop me from fantasying.
IphigeniaSaysHi Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 You're bound to feel ashamed, but there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed about. So you're sexually into a group of people that society casts aside.. unlucky for you, but there is nothing wrong with it. Do you have a girlfriend, or has this fantasizing interfered with your ability to date women?
CanadaGuy111 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Posted February 6, 2009 I am still more attracted to women, I am just also attracted to women with * * * * s lol
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 I am still more attracted to women, I am just also attracted to women with * * * * s lol There is an entire group who shares this fetish. Do you feel comfortable talking to your girlfriend about this?
CanadaGuy111 Posted February 6, 2009 Author Posted February 6, 2009 No, not particularly. Its kinda a big thing to spring on someone.
lukeb Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 Maybe there is something wrong with the question itself. A straight man can't answer the question why he is attracted to women anymore than a gay man can answer why he feels an affinity towards the same sex. They simply do. It is fairly normal to answer these questions if someone feels there is something wrong with these attractions. "Why am I not normal?" - is really what you are asking. If it is only a passing fleeting fantasy, I wouldnt worry about telling or not telling your girlfriend. If you feel you are missing out on this to a large degree, it makes it more important to be honest with your girlfriend.
boowant Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 Maybe there is something wrong with the question itself. A straight man can't answer the question why he is attracted to women anymore than a gay man can answer why he feels an affinity towards the same sex. They simply do. It is fairly normal to answer these questions if someone feels there is something wrong with these attractions. "Why am I not normal?" - is really what you are asking. If it is only a passing fleeting fantasy, I wouldnt worry about telling or not telling your girlfriend. If you feel you are missing out on this to a large degree, it makes it more important to be honest with your girlfriend. I agree with lukeb on this...My bf likes t-girls too and i can so understand! ALL women are beautiful even if they have somethingextra. Alot of these girls look better than us real girls! How long u been with ur g/f? Do u think she would understand at all? If so mayb a 3 sum huh?
incognito26 Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 If this is a fetish , are you one to sleep with cross dressers also? Just curious
realmoney Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 I'm sorry no disrespect to transsexuals and transsexuals lovers in here but in god honest truth it's a Delusion cause the most significant difference between a man and a woman is a woman can give birth some unfortunately by nature they can't but the fact of the matter is in homosexuality you get two sets 1).realistic homosexuals like me(I'm not out down-lo and bottom and loving it until i die i shall look like what god intended me to look like a man who's a homosexual) and 2).delusional homosexuals so there's every thing for every one in the new world we live in so don't stress yourself or feel intimidated just understand some humans are simply Delusional i learn this cause i been in a delusional relationship to be brutal honest with a top who is a secretly transsexual lover and had a girlfriend which i accidentally heard her voice while i rang him one day i felt so bad cause she's a victim in his deceptive affairs so i ended it i guess i was young and vulnerable when i meet him and he was older 25 and living in UK the market isn't as large as US so anyway he only like me cause my ass was big and chocolaty juicy but i was young and having fun the mistake i made is i feel in love with him not knowing I'll end up being his side line for nearly 3years I'm 20 years old now so it all make sense as what (incognito26) said it's a fetish and i didn't want to be put that down so i told him the truth and he keeps denied it saying ''just cause i talk to them doesn't mean I'm having sex them''. All i can say is transsexual ultimately satisfied him not real girls or real boys and i was annoyed not cause i couldn't get other men it's the fact that he keep trying to creep his way back to my life and not admitting the truth that he like them so my conclusion is i don't judge only god can judge but men like them are just in-denial creeps that have to be with a real girl for society to see and have babies and a transsexual on the side to balance it what i don't understand is if you got interested in transsexual why don't you just be with them and stop misleading and deceiving real girls and boys well i guess it's the price we have to pay in this new world we live in but honestly no offense to no one here but you need to understand you can't play with people's heads like that it's not like your oblivious to the word ''TRUST'' but then again it's the thrills that drives them to do that and them type of thrills always leads to a dangerous ending cause good always win over evil at the end of the day regardless your spiritual belief,morals and life experience but then again I'm not the one to judge but the actions this men put upon victims like me real boys and his girlfriends as a real girl is honestly evil but some people are like that so it's the matter of knowing were you stand in life and let them be cause we all going to die at end of the day no one is higher than god.
digger11 Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 how do you feel about a woman who wears a strap on? also a turn on?
realmoney Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 not really I'm a homosexual man who's discreet not a lesbian that means to say it's best to stick to what turns me on which is a homosexual man rather than confusing and complicating my sexuality as it is complicated already.
boowant Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 Everyone has there own thing, and me and my b/f are attracted to T-girls its just what we like! U like men and some girls like girls so on so on, whats the big deal.. The man who wrote this was just wonderin if there was anyone else like him and you wouldnt believe how many people LOVE these gurls! Let them be!
realmoney Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 good for you i guess you and your b/f like delusional species to be honest that's all to it realistic as what you said everyone has there own thing so delusional is your thing.
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